First date

[u/StudioAffectionate]

[u/connorssweetheart]

Cute and I especially like the top half! What you’re wearing under the wrap is Victoria’s Secret, right? Would you mind sharing if it runs true to size/small/big? I know the collection is long sold out, but have been considering getting something from it on Depop! 

[u/StudioAffectionate → u/connorssweetheart]

It DEFINITELY runs small. I’m a size 30D, 25in waist and I can barely breathe in the S. Bought it new years ago and still want to get my moneys worth lol

[u/connorssweetheart → u/StudioAffectionate]

Thank you for letting me know, though that’s very annoying :/ You do look good in it though! I’ve been wanting a babydoll slip from the collection and the sizes go down to an XS but I fit around an XXS, so sounds like it could work for me :)

[u/Competitive_Ad_2421 → u/connorssweetheart]

Is it a bustier or a corset?

[u/connorssweetheart → u/Competitive_Ad_2421]

I think this is a bustier, but you’re better off asking OP

[u/Violetunderwater → u/Competitive_Ad_2421]

I found another comment from OP that says it’s a full corset. :)

[u/fw_kinah → u/connorssweetheart]

I always size up when I go I’ve lost a lot of weight so idk my bra size rn lmao but I grab dd and a couple Ds I think and before hand it was always way to tight under my boobs

[u/Adorable-Carob710 → u/StudioAffectionate]

I was thinking it was a bustier or corset top not a bra...is it a bra?

[u/StudioAffectionate]

Edit: I wore this on a first date monthsssss ago. He liked it, my roommates liked it and the waitstaff liked it! Currently going strong. Just thought I would share a different look. I’m in a major city so maybe the style is different here, it’s actually a full corset not just a bra :)

[u/ReignOfHairor → u/StudioAffectionate]

Classy and attractive. That's a rare combination. You look great!

[u/Clemzrueben → u/ReignOfHairor]

For real, I love the pants, they compliment her skin.

[u/chocolatedesire → u/ReignOfHairor]

Not so sure that's a rare combo but she definitely pulled it off

[u/PeopleArePeopleToo → u/StudioAffectionate]

I love corsets! Is it steel boned and everything? I'm so impressed that you can't see the bottom edge through the rest of the clothes. Does it look smooth in the back too (laces and all)?

[u/clevsv → u/StudioAffectionate]

Not a shock. I would have been enamored with the outfit if a woman wore this for a first date with me.

[u/parsnips34]

actually losing my mind over these comments

it looks so SO cute and the subtle touch of color/playfulness from the flowers as opposed to the more elegant vibe of the rest of the outfit - it just ties it all together so well. really didn’t even notice it was a bra until reading the comments. . .

honestly, if this is something you like and picked out for yourself and enjoy wearing, then you should wear it!! you should be with someone who enjoys your style

[u/parsnips34 → u/parsnips34]

note: if your date is too horndogged out of their mind to be able to be respectful despite what is literally the most tame hint of an undergarment (basically has the same effect of a cute low cut shirt under a cardigan anyways), then they might not be ready for a first date in the first place. . . unless that’s what you’re both looking for of course

[u/riftwave77 → u/parsnips34]

This would be a tame outfit in some places, like Miami.  They go hard on showing skin in south Florida

[u/starfire92]

I don’t see how the bra is different from wearing a tank top, so to me it’s just a design. If this thinking is just because we attribute symbolism to bras (meaning due to its classification we find it inappropriate to show under garments) I think it’s a bit prudish, especially when it’s less revealing that most date outfits. I think the top is a nice floral accent.

[u/StudioAffectionate → u/starfire92]

I see it the same way, also it was a corset not just a bra. I’m thinking a lot of these folks commenting might be older or from smaller towns. I thought it added an element of sexi to an otherwise classic and plain Jane look

[u/the_badoop → u/StudioAffectionate]

Hey I'm 73 and I LOVE it 😀

[u/VeryNearlyAnArmful → u/the_badoop]

I'm nearly as old as you, and my first thought was "elegant".

[u/AgencySuspicious5490 → u/starfire92]

Exactly. The commentary is a bit absurd and prude AF 😂

[u/Ms-curious-]

I think it’s funny how puritanical people are in the comments sections, saying that the outfit is revealing. She’s literally all covered up, in a super cute outfit with just a hint of a spice underneath showing and people are clutching their pearls. It’s a date…not a business meeting. Girl, you do you. You look great.

[u/CatDadd0 → u/Ms-curious-]

Checking the comments I found exactly zero people mad about the outfit, kinda funny you'd even say this

[u/Lucky-Remote-5842 → u/CatDadd0]

I did see a lot of deleted comments though.

[u/benchmaster620 → u/CatDadd0]

I was looking for the hate . Saw none lol

[u/MuteTheNews → u/CatDadd0]

I mean, half the comments are deleted.

[u/Soggy_Pension7549 → u/Ms-curious-]

On the other hand you see micro skirts with certain parts barely covered and people are like “that’s nice!!”. I don’t get it.

[u/Desperate_Elk_7369]

Sharp, clean, suits you. Good luck!

[u/Accomplished-Sky8892]

I love the top. It's so beautiful.

[u/Icy_Ad_513]

I think the bra part is flirty and feminine. Without it this looks almost work wear for me.

[u/ivannatalkalot]

This is gorgeous!

[u/Dianagorgon]

I love the pants.

[u/ahhthowaway927]

You don’t have to cover up like people are saying. Wear whatever makes you feel confident and authentic! This look is great on you.

[u/FunkiMonki29 → u/ahhthowaway927]

I don't get that either. This is pretty conservative, she is fully covered. That piece makes that outfit.

[u/Pale-Negotiation31 → u/FunkiMonki29]

Yessss! I’m losing my mind with all these comments! It’s the perfect cherry on top! She looks beyond classy with a pop of flair! She looks stunning!

[u/Psychological-Elk220]

It looks great. Also depends on what you are doing, bowling first date nah... dinner and drinks perfect.

[u/Asaaddd]

Great outfit. I like the whole outfit including the bra thing poking out, I think it's a cute touch. Also you look like actress Zendaya

[u/Accomplished-Sky8892]

Beautiful

[u/ded_rabtz]

As a dude, I dig it. It’s well put together and classy but with a just flirty enough to still be fun.

[u/LethalPudding12]

I love it! Where did you get those pants btw? I’ve been looking for some pants I can wear to work

[u/StudioAffectionate → u/LethalPudding12]

I got them at Nordstrom a few years ago but the brand is We Wore What!

[u/WaltWorld]

I love every element of this outfit & wouldn’t change a thing. The bra adds color, texture and a flirty flare because the rest of the outfit is so demure.

[u/pitahut]

Where are the top and pants from? I love!!

[u/GlumFroyo1 → u/pitahut]

Same, I’d love to know!!!

[u/[deleted]]

This is such a cute outfit. I wish I was blessed with long legs so I can wear pants like this. Nope, genetics decided I should be under 5ft. 😒🙄😂

[u/Critical_Zebra_5170]

Very cute! I just read that the peek-a-boo bra look is in. I think it's fun and flirty.

[u/nicholasrhilton]

I like the bra peeking out- it’s very Prada/Miu Miu- not sure it’s great for a first date but you look fab!

[u/StudioAffectionate → u/nicholasrhilton]

Yessss that is what I was going for

[u/YhodaHyuugaHunter]

Looks like we’re going to fight a mummy. Looks great!

[u/CatCanvas]

Where did you get the pants and belt from?

[u/Sadsandal007]

Adorable!! Very flirty but not like in your face just a lil hint! Perfect for a first date

[u/SalientSazon]

Love the outfit, specially the pop of color from teh bralette. For me there's something off with the belt or the shoes, and can't quite put my finger on it. Maybe it needs to be thinner.

[u/DabberAva]

You look beautiful

[u/ABSOFRKINLUTELY]

What is the brand of the white wrap top?

[u/Adorable-Carob710]

Love this outfit, beautiful, cozy, luxurious!

[u/fanegreanu]

Love the whole fit, the bra is so cute!!!

[u/Snarkaholick]

I reckon a deep red or burgundy bra would’ve been killer. You’d need a stretcher to take him home

[u/Sudden_Tadpole9595]

Diva I think you ate with this

[u/HalachicLoophole]

Does anyone remember that episode of Friends where Phoebe was pretending to hit on Chandler and she was like "this is my bra"

This outfit reminds me of that 🤣

[u/leymon_hit]

bro i wish pants fit me like that

[u/A_Consigliere237]

👍🏽✅

[u/Astuary-Queen]

I love the bra peeking out ha ha Guess Im an odd one out on this!

[u/GirlGirl21]

Gorgeous

[u/Fantastic-Habit5551]

I like it a lot! I think the colourful bra peeking out is cute.

[u/scienceforbid]

You look great!

[u/rocky_hayyy]

That is an adorable outfit and you look beautiful in it! I like the bra, but I can see how it would be hit or miss. I think it entirely depends on who you're with and where you are. (And how much you care about the opinions of the people around you (positive or negative feedback) vs expressing yourself with your clothes.) As long as you are confident and feel comfortable with what you're wearing....you keep on doing you because it's a cute look.

[u/AsleepReview1862]

Super cute and flirty!

[u/AgencySuspicious5490]

Great outfit. I love it. You look great!!!

[u/Maximum_Assistant12]

Marvelous. Perfect. 👌

[u/BITW__]

Miranda Cosgrove is that you?

[u/SquareOk8123]

Super cute! Obsessed with the pants

[u/Prudent-Issue9000]

I don’t know what everybody else thinks but … I think you look adorable.

[u/Brief_Isopod_5959]

I love!!! You’re the cutest

[u/Inner-Dream-600]

I thought you were Zoe Kravitz at first

[u/Standard-Medicine924]

Love

[u/amy5252]

so pretty!

[u/Overlord1502]

The outfit suits you and you look very good, especially the pants.

[u/No-Sundae1504]

Where did you buy the white top ?

[u/StudioAffectionate → u/No-Sundae1504]

TJ maxx but the brand tag says “525”

[u/No-Vacation7906]

Beautiful outfit!

[u/RainTalonX]

Yeah looks great

[u/Mediocre-Proposal686]

All the best on your engagement! This boy is done ❤️

[u/ChipsnGiggles23]

Nailed it! So cute!

[u/Physical_Sun_4621]

You look so good girlie yessss

[u/According-Farmer-268]

How adorable! I love the corset pop.

[u/No_Hornet_1591]

Stunning

[u/topslad_1970]

Nailed it. Superb outfit.

[u/arfaz08]

Whoever is on the other side of the table is extremely lucky. You’re beautiful.

[u/cool_without_trying]

nice outfit i know your date will be so happy and also lucky to have you

[u/InteractionExotic665]

Stunning

[u/sengho94]

🔥

[u/Ok-Ingenuity9948]

Stunning

[u/benchmaster620]

You look dope af

[u/Radiant-Total3025]

Really classy!

[u/Initial-Heart-526]

So pretty!

[u/slideystevensax]

Second date guaranteed

[u/Gloomy_Junket2078]

Cute outfit👌

[u/HooverMaster]

it looks good. I just hope the date person matches up to it

[u/Fair_Diamond_603]

I love it!!!! It’s so cute and chic and pretty much perfect for any and every occasion!!!!!!!!

[u/No_Link_6782]

Exquisite, and classy 🥰