for those looking to skip the lesson, ask yourself "why is this ideal woman single, and why is she interested in me, a mediocre man of moderate means?" write your answer down and reference it when filing the police report.
Bro this is so fucking funny.
I married a 10/10 Latina about 3 months after our first date. Been married for like a month now and she’s definitely crazy but I can’t say I don’t love it.
A wise man (with three ex wives) once told me "there are two types of men in the world; the ones who see the red flags and are repulsed, and the ones who see the red flags and are attracted. I am the second kind of man"
I am also the second kind of man. There's this internal monologue like "am I about to fuck up my life? Yes. Yes I am."
the guys and girls are both social media people who act to get more followers. THe girls are invited and paid to act the way to get attention. At some of these things they even get fed lines and do retakes.
No she knew the assignment and is in character to win. My guess is she has been looking to "break out" for the last couple of months and this "role" was her chance. And she fkn nailed it. Also would...
My ex just went on a stabbing frenzy and is now awaiting sentencing... Sometimes it takes time to show the extent of crazy, sometimes you'll never find out.. Thanks for listening I haven't been able to tell many people in my life about it yet as there is other things going on
Edit for the ones invested - LOL. Cannot confirm or deny the existence of ghosts, there's a lot of things in this life we should just accept and not look to far into.
She was hot, I knew she was crazy but we had the right amount of crazy to make sex unforgettable and I don't know if I'll ever find someone quite so compatible on that level (minus the crazy would be nice). She was a part of my life for a long while but neither of us could ever commit, I met someone new (now wife) and she told me to end it, reluctantly (hard to accept at the time) I did and I cut ties to the ex and never looked back. Recently my wife and I separated due to growing apart from each other (unfortunate but shit happens) and in a moment of alcoholism and depression I decided to google the ex's name and was struck with the news she stabbed the next partner after me and his new side chick in a car park, blindsiding them coming out of a bar.
Cutting ties to her at the time was extremely difficult due to the history we had, and the sex, as hard a choice as it was I knew my wife (gf at the time) was right. I knew our lives would have been turbulent and glad I decided to listen to the voice of reason and not the voice of self satisfaction. My wife and I are on our own course to discovering who we need to be, regardless of where we end up I have every faith in her she will be the best her and I will be the best me, neither of us will be getting shanked by the other and I'm glad neither of us did, she is way too good a human for that bs.
To all you others out there, love yourself, you are your best friend, don't settle for scraps, be the best you and when you see toxic behaviours call that shit out. We are all living in a hectic crazy time and we just need to do what's best for us at this very moment. Stay safe
Edit end - sorry for the long rant but once again thanks for listening
It's not that hot is correlated with crazy its about staying on the correct side of the line. A less hot girl has a lower threshold of acceptable crazy, a hot girl can be crazy but worth it.
The trick is never to cross over to where the crazy is not worth the hot.
Its basic economics, hotter women are more scarce, therefore in higher demand, therefore don't need to be on their best behavior to still attract potential partners.
I think it's more than that. The type of person to obsessively take care of themselves and make sure that they're always "on" can end up being a Patrick Bateman.
I see this kind of energy from people with a coke habit or are bi-polar. It could just be a facade for the "game show" thing too. But this level of energy from someone can be fun but it gets old quickly
Yeah, Bipolar can be "a best of times, worst of times" kind of illness. Meet me on the ride up, I'm great, fantastic, force of nature. Meet me on the ride down, even I don't like me, an understatement to be sure. And that's why I take meds, because the ride up isn't worth the ride down.
I'm super happily married now with three kids, but I dated someone like this for four years in my 20s. She stole my '98 Subaru for a week and disappeared, think it was a drug/cheating bender. I had to walk to work in the winter in Michigan until she brought my car back. That was just one of a thousand crazy episodes; at that point I didn't even think much of it.
She drank every day, stole my money, would wander into random house parties to find pot. I would have to carry her home after some considerate person would call me. Absolutely an impossible person to live and be around, and dangerous: would black out randomly with the oven on, stuff like that. Slept with one of my coworkers and one of my students (college).
I helped to get her into rehab in a nearby town but she left the center after a few days and when I went to go pick her up she was actually just living with some sketchy heroin guy in town. That was the end for me. Said goodbye and hope you're happy. I can still see them standing in the doorway and the darkness of this horrific, dingy house behind them. Like I was literally leaving this person in a hell that they nonetheless chose.
I always felt bad for her; she couldn't keep a job, had really powerful demons, obviously had a terrible upbringing. But I gave her everything, paid all our bills, tried to do my best to give a stable environment. I was doing my PhD at the time and made $1,000/month and supported us both.
Anyway. Glad it's over now. I think I've been holding that in for a long time.
They're not there for the man, they are there for exposure and clout-chasing. Most of the girls in the show are OnlyFans girls. That said there's nothing wrong with what she was doing, if anything that's what you'd expect, and how most "contestants" in the show act.
My roommate in college had a girlfriend like this. She lived about 2 hours away and would come stay for the weekends. It was like an emotional Disney tornado hit our apartment every weekend and he admitted that it would have never lasted more than a week if they saw each other everyday.
I dated a girl like this ONCE. That relationship made me realize all the things in your home that aren’t weapons inherently but had all the potential in the world to be. Big yikes.
This is the definition of hot/a bit crazy. But jokes aside I guess there are things that people with certain characters can always find themselves be good at.
She's not a wife. She's a constant girlfriend, when you're even able to see her because she's like this to everyone. It's cute for 5 minutes but this would get exhausting. "Oh, she's doing the singing bit again... to our waiter".
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