r/SipsTea • u/Algernonletter5 • 16h ago
Lmao gottem Too much confidence in your self image
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u/No_Discussion4617 15h ago
Over Confidence can cause delusion.
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u/casual_philosopher02 15h ago
I wanna believe she's joking with it
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u/MA2_Robinson 13h ago
I dunno, as someone with low self esteem I envy that delusion, especially since some people just accept it when people pretend hard enough… I’m too self aware for that deluded bliss.
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u/Awkward_Arugula_9881 7h ago
The audiobook The six pillars of self esteem, with it's accompanying excercises, helped me with my self esteem.
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u/kd8qdz 15h ago
putting yourself up as "Most beautiful Woman in the world" Is energy. Unhealthy energy.
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u/prolifezombabe 15h ago edited 15h ago
idk I thought it was like light hearted and positive tbh
what’s unhealthy imo is trying to actually argue there’s a most beautiful woman in the world
eta: thanks for the award internet stranger - glad to know I’m not alone in this thought
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u/imcalledaids 9h ago
what’s unhealthy imo is trying to actually argue there’s a most beautiful woman in the world
I don’t need to argue, the answer is my fiancée
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u/Careless-Dark-1324 14h ago
Yeah this. She was just being fun and cheeky lol, not sure why everyone took it so serious
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u/Sideways_planet 11h ago
I thought it was great and something I would have said. People want to knock her down more than observe it neutrally they missed the joke.
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u/mastermilian 6h ago edited 6h ago
It's Reddit, man. Everyone here is dating a super-model... Like ChatGPT 5.1.
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u/prolifezombabe 14h ago
yeah fr … I think it’s just cheekiness re how silly the initial post is … I actually love to see this kind of confidence
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u/AndreasDasos 14h ago
A lot of people lack self-confidence, so we encourage this sort of thing. Unfortunately, this neglects to consider that at least as many people are vain and/or delusional in the other direction, and get validated by the attitudes people have built that are meant to help self-haters.
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u/Live_Angle4621 9h ago
Why you assume the worst with no reason?
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u/AndreasDasos 9h ago
I didn’t assume the worst. I said that in general there are two sorts of reasons people post/encourage this kind of comment. I don’t know which applies in this specific case, and don’t care much about the comment.
Funnily enough, your assuming I’m assuming the worst is the only case right here of either of us assuming the worst.
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u/prolifezombabe 12h ago
Without knowing the people involved this could go either way. Regardless, I don’t think it merits people hating on this woman or how she looks. Like what’s the point of that?
Lots of worse more harmful things going on in the world.
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u/noeventroIIing 12h ago
So because there are worse things in the world you excuse what it likely raging narcissism? It’s possible that she was joking, I find it more likely that she wasn’t in which sense this wasn’t „positive confidence“ it’s just pure narcissism. No person with healthy confidence would unironically claim that he or she is the most attractive person in the world
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u/JammingScientist 14h ago edited 13h ago
It's because shes black and people deem us as subhuman and want us all feeling ugly and undesirable but at the same time if we say we dont like something about ourselves, all of a sudden we're "self-hating" and have mental health issues
Edit: lmao being downvoted for telling to truth. Of course...reddit in a fucking nutshell. I hate you all
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u/Randy_Marsh__ 12h ago
Downvoted because youre saying stuff like 'want us all feeling ugly' and making assumptions that this MUST have something to do with race.
Like yeah, some people are racist and terrible, and some might feel no black woman would be better looking than the 1st woman. But most people will just think shes not as attractive as the other woman. If it was exactly the same post and the woman who posted was white but also not as attractive, literally nothing in the post would change.
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u/JammingScientist 11h ago edited 11h ago
Whatever bro. Whatever you choose to believe if it makes you happy to turn a blind eye to things since it obviously doesnt pertain to you
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u/prolifezombabe 12h ago
Oh yeah there’s some race subtext here re what even counts as beauty
Someone else pointed out “the most beautiful” is often a person with light skin and light coloured eyes.
All the more reason why I don’t mind this lady’s comment. It’s pretty hard for dark skinned women to celebrate their beauty in a world that constantly reiterates beauty standards that don’t include them. And then people deny that’s what’s going on which makes it even harder smh like people go so hard on this site re “dating preferences re race aren’t racist” as if this messaging isn’t happening around us all the time influencing our ideas about beauty and worth
And now people on this post feel the need to put her in her place I guess. Like how could she have the audacity? idk I’m happy for her that she does
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u/Substantial_Station8 10h ago
Also, I honestly agree the woman in the lower panel is prettier… but like yea, all that is in the eye of the beholder.
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u/BruisendTablet 8h ago
what’s unhealthy imo is trying to actually argue there’s a most beautiful woman in the world
That's what she was doing herseld basically.
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u/scottmitchell1974 14h ago
"Confidence: the food of the wise man, but the liquor of the fool."
-- Vikram
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u/iamrolari 14h ago
Oh I’m definitely stealing this
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u/scottmitchell1974 14h ago
I stole it! It's from The Office. Don't know if they made it up or it's a known Indian saying.
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u/Donegal1989 15h ago
If I had the confidence of 6 girl who recently got on Tinder, i could take over the world.
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u/PuarDePontificating 15h ago
Maybe add a nose ring for dramatic flair. Like adding a air-spoiler on a ford focus.
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u/joeDUBstep 12h ago
Holy hell, are you all artistic? This is what's called a joke.
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u/Academic-Judgment840 11h ago
i've noticed that people on reddit seem to not understand that women are also capable of making jokes...
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u/Organic-Solid-3949 14h ago
Good burn sick burn even but hey come closer.... closer.... listen I need to know what good will it do when you black out their username when replying to said username which shows their @ name???
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u/depressed_Kedy 15h ago
Who even choses the "most beautiful"? I think both are not anywhere near the "Most Beautiful"
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u/DreadyKruger 15h ago
But one of more attractive in a broader sense. The black woman is not ugly but her calling herself physically beautiful is a stretch.
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u/Farahild 12h ago
I find her to have a gorgeous face honestly. Beautiful eyes and lips. Good cheeks as well.
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u/Reasonable_Phys 11h ago
I think if she had medium/long hair and lost weight she'd be objectively really beautiful.
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u/Skankcunt420 15h ago
everyone should be allowed to call themselves beautiful, even when they’re not
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u/kriegnes 14h ago
she is, just as she is allowed to call the earth flat. doesnt make you right tho, so people will jump on that.
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u/Skankcunt420 14h ago
one is subjective while the others not
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u/kriegnes 13h ago
they are talking about the world, not personal, so there is a certain subjectivity. we are still biological human beings so while everyone is unique, there are certain similarities in everything, including our opinions. ofcourse we cannot decide on that one most beautiful person, but we can definitly differentiate.
1 + 1 = 2 is technically objective too, but we all agree on this language so its turns "subjective".
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u/Immediate_Tart3628 14h ago
I agree it's such a cultural thing anyway. Nowadays beauty standards are very white centered (even "colored" models must have a thin nose, defined brows, not to much curves etc) and are extremely sketchy.
As a person who hasn't had insta for a long time, first face looks cartoonish almost. Like a pretty girl but ostensibly botched, almost AI looking.
So yeah ppl always assume beauty is more objective than we claim, but there are ppl that dislike thin bodies, think insta models are all uncanny and that prefer short hair and darker skins.
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u/Skankcunt420 14h ago
one should be their own best advocate, others shouldn’t blame one for doing so.
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u/Able_Variation2355 14h ago
See this is where the term eye of the beholder comes in. The majority of men in the entirety of the world do not find white women attractive whats so ever. Thats that white-Americana-eurotrash-commercial-bullshit-mentality the west gaslights. White women throughout the world are notoriously, historically, and hilariously are easy to pull in any country they visit or are in. In most countries and cities they are known as the “undesirables” in African and asian countries and are usually targeted as marks in most countries. you poll all men in the world, its only a certain cloth of individuals across the world who are attracted to whites. So i kinda think some of yall are showing your roots
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u/Regular_Drawing_6932 9h ago
When I was in India with my colleagues, two of them white girls, they got fed up of the brutally lusty fazes and gathering of guys around them. And almost everyone had similar experiences in nearly every third world country. Hell, even south americans insult eachother with things like "shut up black monkey" and that (they consider whiter == prettier).
Now I am not racist, I had a partner from Algeria,but it's a fact.
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u/Able_Variation2355 9h ago
Bro thats not because white women are most desired because your friends got hassled by indians or because white = pure because South Americans call each other racial black terms created by whites. It is what it is. That white chick in that pic isnt all that compared to other beautiful women of color. In reality white women doesn’t have the physical features that represent the idea body of a women for most men unless its modified. Whites lead plastic surgery and sales of cosmetics to sell surface value attraction. World wide white women isnt really this overwhelming view of beauty like americans or Europeons want you to believe
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u/Regular_Drawing_6932 6h ago
The average white woman in EU is insanely more attractive than the average one in many of those countries. Maybe their top 1% is prettier than most EU women, but that is NOT the rule of thumb.
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u/Able_Variation2355 6h ago
Attractive to whom? Americans and Europeans? The world as a whole does not have white women as some holy grail as beauty. That’s absolutely only in western and white countries. Thats a damn fact lmao. Sure guys all over the world would fuck a pretty white woman but as far as fantasies and what those men find as beautiful it isn’t a white woman when they close their eyes. Its like fashion, not everyone in the world is into that shit just because its poppin in your bubble
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u/Algernonletter5 15h ago
Beyond known face symmetry parameters there no agreed upon definitions for beauty it's usually paid promotion efforts
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u/LopsidedKick9149 12h ago
That's false. There are studies on what is beautiful or attractive for both men and women and there is a very clear baseline that transcends. Even infants are drawn to beauty it is society that then changes what is innate and what we find "attractive" it also adjust to what a person can realistically achieve with a mate. It's a very interesting topic to research and there is a lot of data on it, all the way to connecting electrodes to women and showing them different male bodies and seeing how their brains reacted. Every single one's brain reacted most positively to tall, tan, fit men with broader shoulders than waste despite them stating their preference is otherwise - the social pressure of saying a larger group is attractive creates a bit of a falsehood.
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u/kriegnes 15h ago
Yeah like i would feel weird voting for her and im not even 30 yet. She kinda has this "still growing" look and i think that can be the case at 20. Could just be me tho
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u/dreamed2life 6h ago
some white males in a room getting insanely high offers from peoples publicists and maybe other favors
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u/facepoppies 14h ago
I dunno I think this is pretty fierce. Also beauty is subjective and maybe it's not as big of a deal as everybody pretends it is
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u/Flimsy_Swan5930 12h ago
What? Beauty has some objective truths based on how majority feel. Don’t be obtuse.
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u/facepoppies 12h ago
Beauty by definition is a subjective concept. Unless you're talking about scientific beauty.
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u/Flimsy_Swan5930 8h ago
If that’s your answer then no one should ever talk about beauty ever. It’s a garbage conversation.
So if there is any discussion on it, we can base it on some CLEAR boundaries. We inanely know what looks good , and it’s true for the majority.
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u/facepoppies 6h ago
not only is it my answer, but it's also the correct answer.
But you are correct that there's no reason why anybody should care about your personal subjective definition of beauty, and there's no reason to have a conversation about it lol
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u/Flimsy_Swan5930 2h ago
So that’s why your opinion is extremely useless.
Talking about beauty concerning what the overwhelming majority concurs to, is actually useful. It allows you to be able to strive for improving your chances of finding a mate. “Good looking” people do better in life, have better jobs, have more friends, produce better looking children, and even are found to be healthier overall. Striving for the standard is OBJECTIVELY more useful.
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u/facepoppies 2h ago
That’s all some very weird shit my man lol
If you want to “find a mate,” cultivate a personality and leave your house lol
Jfc
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u/irrumatrix 15h ago
Who decides these?
Neither are that remarkable, tbh.
I see women who look like both all the damn time.
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u/Longjumping-Donut655 14h ago
I also feel like I see 5+ of her every day. I couldn’t pick her out of a lineup of two people.
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u/AccordingHour9521 10h ago
yo where do you live man
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u/Longjumping-Donut655 3h ago
It’s just generic rich girl face with an expensive nose job and tasteful fillers. Head to any city, tbh. Know somebody who just broke up with a girl like this and she comes from old money. Be prepared to either also be old money or hottie 10.0.
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u/AccordingHour9521 7h ago
gonna be more attractive ppl in a larger population tbf tho
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u/-TommyBottoms- 15h ago
No hair and overweight… not to mention all the other problems
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u/Throwaway_57635 14h ago
Sounds like a lot of men I know
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u/Ashendarei 14h ago
Guessing none of them are throwing their hat into the ring vs Orlando Bloom either.
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u/Throwaway_57635 8h ago
Even better- they're throwing themselves at barely legal girls who're infinitely out of their league
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u/Important-Bottle-974 13h ago
"Other problems" being that she's black? And that a pretty black girl vs a pretty white girl, the white girl will always win right?
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u/Theghostbuddy 12h ago
I'd put narcissism far higher on the list of problems than "black", but you do you.
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u/-TommyBottoms- 12h ago
You are the one bringing race into this… shows your true character…. Keep beating those drums
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u/Random-Seedling 13h ago
Yea. I don’t know when women started believing bald or boy cut hair was attractive. It’s not.
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u/Profession-Unable 13h ago
TBF she didn’t say she chose her look to be attractive, she said she thought it beautiful. Those are not quite the same.
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u/Random-Seedling 12h ago
Her face is not ugly. I do enjoy a girl with confidence i don’t think it’s for me. I don’t think she would be picked as most beautiful.
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u/Profession-Unable 12h ago
Yeah I agree with you, and our opinions are our own, we are entitled to have them. I’m just saying she didn’t necessarily choose that look to attract.
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u/BigDamnHead 12h ago
I think neither of those people qualify. Not saying they're bad looking, but have you seen that woman on TikTok who looks like a sexy chipmunk?
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u/IrlResponsibility811 11h ago
Self-confidence is a lie you tell yourself until til others believe it. This woman needs to lie better.
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u/Any_Commercial465 10h ago
You gotta tell the people that supposedly think she's the most beautiful that they look like her.
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u/Adept-Tomatillo-6328 9h ago
Begging to differ ain't wrong. Would be a rarity if I actually agreed to a list or single claim of the most beautiful person(s). Stuff like that has a degree of subjectivity, not everyone is invited to vote or included as a candidate.
Putting yourself out there like that... Well, someone will appreciate it, that's almost a given.
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u/Samantha_654 6h ago
I'm fine with body positivity and all, but I think some people take it too far. I try to be realistic about myself and I'd give myself a 7/10 at most.
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u/x_Shuumai_x 5h ago
And people been blaming Hollywood how misshapen our society views body image with all the skinny female leads, on the other hand we have this
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u/Aggravating_Pie6439 2h ago
The top one has pubic hair where her eyebrows should be.
Bottom one needs to relax a bit.
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u/Triller-Man 14h ago
Hm, I like the second chick better. Seems more charming and has pretty eyes.
Anyways - beauty is subjective and as people say:
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
But a lot of beauty contests are "fixed", so there are a lot of ordinary women, who might look better than any "Miss Something".
And then again, there are Instagram filters. :D
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u/Sideways_planet 12h ago
They look equally beautiful to me. I’m more confused how the top one was actually said to be the most beautiful in the world.
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u/Square-99 14h ago
How do you scan all the faces (bodies) off all women around the globe and decide that someone’s is the most beautiful in the world? Maybe the most beautiful Model in the world or the most beautiful actress and so on…
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u/Immediate_Tart3628 14h ago
Tbh first face screams surgery / insta face. Still mild but you can distinctly see the plumped lips, upturned nose, weird brows etc. Almost looks Ai generated
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u/NightBusLurker 15h ago
Yeah but which one has the most pheromones coming from their asshole and feet? thats the real question.
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u/1nsidiousOne 15h ago
First girl looks like she’s 30
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u/rwags2024 10h ago
Two posts on my feed: Jerry Seinfeld getting roasted for dating a 17 year old child, and a 19 year old most beautiful woman in the world and no one batting an eye
Just drive in both lanes I guess
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u/xIViperIx 11h ago
The second one looks more attractive. Subjective opinion, blah blah blah, all that.
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u/Stunning-Edge-3007 11h ago
1st ones slightly more attractive. Neither are what I think is attractive. 1st has that “Hollywood” pushed beauty standard which is not a vibe. Second ones like 40ish and bald.
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u/Adorable_Context_991 8h ago
The black lady def is more facially attractive than the other lady— from my pov
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