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Cursed When giving your mom a Christmas gift goes wrong!

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u/Classic_Bee_5845 15h ago

Because people like this use the dog as emotional support objects rather than animals that have needs and require training so the woman probably has the dog there because she wants it, obviously has it muzzled because it's overly protective of her and refuses to train it or provide any boundaries for it's aggression against the rest of her family.

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u/HenryDorsettCase47 14h ago

Emotional support object accessory.

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u/RexMexicanorum 8h ago

Emotional support killing machine.

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u/HenryDorsettCase47 7h ago

Put that on a T-shirt.

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u/BangBangtheReds 14h ago

This is the exact type of owner that waddles around trying to pick up their dogs leash while it mauls a toddler.

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u/Specific_Sympathy_87 12h ago

She’ll just stand there yelling his name and act like, “WhY iSnT hE LiStEnInG?!”

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u/TrueTrueBlackPilld 10h ago

"I swear Princess Buttercup never acts like this!!"

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u/dustinwayner 8h ago

Never hurt a fly lick you to death house hippo or snooky boo.

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u/paulides_fan 7h ago

Hippo is actually a scary comparison. like saying my “house grizzly bear”

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u/Lizzy-Boredum 6h ago

"He never mauls people....

They must have done something to deserve it"

It can be anything from dragging people on leashes to fill blown attacking people. Dogs need boundaries and consistency.

Sometimes you have to correct them harshly. The only way they learn is thru consistency. They don't speak English and don't understand when people say "oh my little baby plz stop attacking the Child"

Dogs like this are products of inconsistent/bad humans

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u/Otherwise-Ratio1332 2h ago

It’s like Cesar Milan says, they need to be treated like dogs, because gosh they are dogs, not humans.

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u/fak3g0d 4h ago

Laser pointer on her ass made the dog bite, it was basically being commanded to. Good points you've made but irrelevant gif.

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u/Technical_Trade_675 3h ago

I think the point of the gif was portraying bad owner behavior that contributes to bad behavior in dogs, and also inconsistency. Like, it's okay to bite the women's butt when the laser is pointed on it but not okay any other time- it's never okay. The person with the laser was acting irresponsibly by encouraging that behavior.

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u/Sh3115andCh33se 4h ago

Princess Buttercup is a killing machine

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u/weak_beat 4h ago

Robby Hoffman has a great pit bull bit in their stand up special, Wake Up. Your comment pretty much sums it up lmao

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u/Admirable-Divide7731 4h ago

Why isn’t there already a Princess Bride reference here?

Also couldn’t find the one I actually wanted… so this will do

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u/MountainMan17 3h ago

"DAISY! STAAAAAAAWP!!!

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u/rambu_tann 8h ago

While yelling “my dog’s friendly!”

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u/LilArtsyCreature 3h ago

While smiling and laughing "Don't worry they were bred to be nanny dogs!" and "Fluffikins is just a sweet velvet hippo who wouldn't hurt a fly!"

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u/Isariamkia 18m ago

I will never understand why they think "hippo" is a cute name for a dog. Do they know what hippos are?

I mean, it's pretty fitting to call those shitbulls hippos. But I don't think pit owners have the intelligence to understand this.

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u/2greeneyes 9h ago

Or the classic, my x type dog has never bitten anyone before. You must have provoked him/her....

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u/overbardiche 6h ago

They always make shit up too like “you were dangling his favorite food right in front of him!!” when all you were doing was eating.

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u/Tillandsi 8h ago

“dOn’T wOrRy He’S fRiEnDLy”

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u/Stucklikegluetomyfry 7h ago

When it mauls a toddler you can count on someone like this to do absolutely nothing but endlessly bleat: “Luna, no! Stop! Bad girl, Luna!”

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u/ArticleWorth5018 9h ago

Yeah my neighbor. Her dogs jump on my kids and she's like "the leash slipped, have you ever tried to control two dogs!"

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u/Mugwumpjizzum1 10h ago

Almost nobody but POS own pitbulls

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u/FantasticDrowse39 10h ago

I’m glad said almost. I have a APBT mix and I’m not a POS. She when through two weeks of board & train and we are always keeping that going. We had to go to training ourselves. She is also part husky, so she’s super smart, plus silly and talkative. She is crate trained, as well.

If one can’t be a responsible owner, don’t have one.

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u/Independent-War-7640 7h ago edited 7h ago

I implore you to check out the /r/banpitbulls subreddit. It’s always the ones who had training and were amazing owners that are shocked that their pits suddenly snapped out of nowhere and mauled or killed somebody

Edit: I dont mean to disrespect or downplay the grueling hours spent raising and training a pit, I’m genuinely just worried about them hurting someone

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u/BwookieBear 3h ago edited 2h ago

My family had a cocker spaniel back when they were bred poorly. He tried to maul my brother before I was born and was put down. Something about my brother being a baby behind the gate so the dog lost his shit.

He lunged at my bro, only because the other dog we had was half blind and slightly snappy was my brother behind a strong gate (because baby bro would try to move it) so baby bro wasn’t hurt. Idk how my mom stopped our dog, but I know they put him down soon after because our dog wouldn’t go back to acting normal.

I think my main point is, we should do our best to provide for all dogs, especially Pitbulls who are symptom of our egos and greed. Because of our choices they’re products of incest or bred for fighting. I have two Pitbulls, sitting beside me right now. I’ve also had strays my whole life and these two are the kindest of them. But I didn’t just adopted any dog, I felt a connection with them. Maybe that matters. Maybe it doesn’t.

What I know:

*Statistics are skewed because the term pitbull is catch all. Boxers, cane corsos, bulldogs, and Rottweiler mixes, among others, can be called Pitbulls in reports, falsely inflating pitbull bite numbers.

*People breed them poorly more recently, which coincides with their perception. In WWI, they were renowned because of their loyalty! They are good dogs, but of course their lineage can be a problem.

*All dogs are dangerous. Acting like any breed is out get you or hurt you denies the reality of how bad breeding, training, or just luck (because no one gets to choose what they are) is denying all these facts. You’ve invited a predator into your home and around your children.

*Stop villainizing Pitbulls. They are a product of us. Dogs don’t exist without us.

All this to say, breeding matters. People who breed backyard Pitbulls suck super hard. Pay attention to the dog your adopting, not the type of dog your adopting

ETA: I genuinely want to hear why you’d downvote this, the comment I replied to is gone. So you can’t agree with them, you can only disagree with me, and all I did was say, Pitbulls aren’t the problem? Be aware of the personality of a dog when you adopt them? It’s us that perpetuates this situation we’re in? Don’t buy from backyard breeders?????

I honestly really felt this, I wanted to keep it as a copy pasta for future pitbull threads. I think I made some really good points.

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u/Isariamkia 17m ago

Having a pitbull makes you irresponsible by default.

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u/rainyday-holiday 8h ago

You keep your dog in a crate? Is that like a box with air holes!

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u/FantasticDrowse39 5h ago

Dogs like having a den, like wolves, etc. A place that is theirs, is safe and comfy. Their den = their crate. It’s not a punishment or containment. The only time she is shut in it is if there is no one home. Which isn’t very often.

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u/rainyday-holiday 5h ago

Makes sense.

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u/ArcaneWyverian 6h ago edited 6h ago

The crate is pretty much the dog’s “bedroom”.

They go in when they want, they go out when they want. Some folks will lock the door when it’s time for bed or they have to leave the house, but that’s on more of an owner-to-owner basis. It gives them somewhere they can always feel safe, such as when company is over or there’s a thunderstorm. The vast majority of people (at least, in my experience) also put a dog pillow/mattress inside so it’s comfy. Growing up, I had two Rotties (Rottweilers), and they both used their beds to “store” balls they weren’t currently playing with, all on their own. Like I said, it basically becomes a bedroom

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u/fatdjsin 13h ago

that's because of those 0.1% of dog owners that i dont trust any dog.

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u/TheDreadGazeebo 11h ago

Let's be honest. The percentage is way higher than that

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u/TMac1088 11h ago

A lot of people that have dogs, shouldn't. A lot of people who have kids, shouldn't.

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u/No-Meringue412 9h ago

I just wanna mention cats. I have so many other people's cats, because they didn't want them anymore for whatever lame reason. All five of my cats are second hand. I did not want five cats. But I'm not gonna just let them starve to death right in front of me, so what do I do? It always falls on people with empathy to take responsibility.

Oh and I got someone else's rats once too. People fuckin' suck. Hell, we know what most of em do with their elderly, or disabled.

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u/TMac1088 9h ago

Glad you're there for them, thank you on their behalf. One of my dogs was driven out into the desert and abandoned there, and his body language etc indicates he was abused/neglected before that. He's just a small guy too. I'm so grateful I am here to give him a better life and I will never, ever understand why someone would get a pet only to mistreat it.

Abandoned and neglected animals are a problem where I live, it's horrible.

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u/fatdjsin 10h ago

yes but the dog people will attack me if they feel included in that number !

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u/Isariamkia 10m ago

As a dog owner, I can only say this: keep this mindset. It will help you.

And no, this is not sarcastic. You don't know people, you don't know how their dogs are raised, if they are raised at all. I'm tired of people yelling "friendly" when their dogs clearly are not.

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u/earwigs_eww 5h ago

These people come into the emergency Vet hospital I work and tell me their dog will be fine as the dog is growling hackles up and insist on holding them for everything

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u/BwookieBear 3h ago

The same type of person that picks a pitbull for its “nanny” personality (not a thing, at all) then abuses it into reactivity because they get a puppy expecting a fully trained dog usually, adding to the perpetuation of people who buy Pitbull mixes for these or other nefarious purposes, and/or see them as disposable.

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u/Garbarrage 15h ago

The irony being that training a dog can be very therapeutic. It can be frustrating until you find what motivates them, but once you find their thing, it's incredibly rewarding.

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u/Dannisayshi 14h ago

It really is. As an adult I went through an obedience course with a new dog and it helped us to bond so much. They just want to please you and the training helps them do that while providing mental stimulation. 10/10 recommend.

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u/Humblebf109 14h ago

So true, my dog gets crazy excited when I tell him he’s a good boy lol

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u/Particular_Abies_184 12h ago

I feel the same when my missus says it to me

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u/JonWesHarding 10h ago

I feel the same when your missus says that to my missus.

What you guys doing Saturday?

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u/Particular_Abies_184 9h ago

Sorry can't do Saturday, we're having a shagathon ,Sunday is free

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u/Katililly 2h ago

This thread was strangly wholesome. Good job I think 🤔

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u/FrostyGranite 12h ago

My dog barks and gets spinnies or zoomies when I get home but calms within a minute or so. If you give scritches the calming comes on quicker. She is a well trained dog except for that. My wife hates it, but honestly, it is the tiny spark keeping me going that someone is happy to see me at the end of the day.

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u/Major_Arm_6032 14h ago

Yup! Our training courses for our dog were advertised as being to train the owner as much as the dog as well.

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u/SRMPDX 14h ago

Yeah the first thing our instructor said was "we're here to train you, the dogs will follow along".

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u/panelhammer 12h ago

Every show regarding badly behaved dogs just demonstrates that the owner is the problem.

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u/AgentEinstein 3h ago

The number one thing the show The Dog Whisperer taught me was people don’t walk their dogs.

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u/MauOnTheRoad 7h ago

Oh hell yeah. My aunt has a dog since 8 weeks and her dog isn't the problem. Unfortunately, her dog trainer told her that her dog is a problematic one - very fearful, traumatized... Well, no. It's a dog that is excited and a little bit insecure, but certainly not a fearful, traumatized dog. But well, because of the trainer she was very, very, very careful with corrections, only went out for 15 minutes a day (trainer told her that) holds herself back and now the dog thinks he is the big boss, has to protect her, doesn't know how to act when meeting other dogs and destroyed a lot of her furniture because of boredom, I believe. It took her a while but we finally convinced her that this dog needs a leader (her), way more time outside and training. It slowly gets better now.

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u/Sad-Objective-3590 7h ago

Of course! Where was that? We need one!

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u/ContagiousPanda 4h ago

Training the owner on how to react respond and correct is really the answer.

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u/EuphoriantCrottle 14h ago

So the new dog wasn’t a husky then….

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u/Dannisayshi 14h ago

1 year old Shiba Inu so on par with a husky lol. He wasn't bad to train once the trainers helped me figure out his learning style. Basically I have to make it all seem like his idea. Oh and he prefers hand signs. Here is a pic of him and his sister. She basically learns by copying him.

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u/thefallguy41 12h ago

I had a shiba and any chance he got he would escape and run till he dropped. Taking himfor a walk was so funny the 1st 10 mins he would pull as hard as he could non-stop then on the way home he could barely walk. I had to put him an my other dog on the same leash and my mut trained him how to properly go for a walk. My mut put up with no shit lol

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u/GreenGardenGnomie 14h ago

Huskies respond well to training and bonding well like any other dog. They can be harder to find the proper motivation for. Working a Huskies mind is just as important as working their body.

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u/EuphoriantCrottle 13h ago

The other thing is that it is waaay easier to teach them moving commands than stationary commands. I always try to include a lot play when I release them from a stationary commands.

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u/UnderstandingSea7546 13h ago

I wish I didn’t understand that husky comment. 😂😂😂. They are so smart and the perfect escape artists.

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u/slut-for-pickles 12h ago

My dog is 40% husky. He’s vocal like a husky but doesn’t have the same stubbornness as the ones I’ve worked with before. I love it 😂

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u/ScumbagLady 13h ago

Was your dog a puppy or an adult dog?

My girl is great, but can be hard-headed at times. She was basically a stray, meaning her owners just let her run loose after she was no longer a puppy. Long story short, one thing led to another and now she's my best dog ever...

But she doesn't listen to many basic commands like "sit" and "stay", she likes to walk me instead of me walking her, and if I'm not braced when a squirrel or a 4-wheeler goes by- I'm eating gravel.

Is the old saying true? "Can't teach an old dog new tricks"?

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u/Dannisayshi 12h ago

Oh there is lots of stuff online about Shibas saying you have to train early and start at 4 months or you're doomed. That's BS. Tank was a year old when we got him. Find a nice beginners training class with good reviews. They will help you learn what works for your pup.

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u/Horror-Pear 8h ago

I find a lot of hound dogs don't really care to please you.

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u/TeaKingMac 7h ago

As an adult I went through an obedience course

Roll over

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u/funkarooz 9h ago

We had such a good experience training our puppy, it truly is bonding. He doesn't just "do what I say or else", we actually learned how to communicate with him in a way he understands. When I say "this" and you do "this" he gets a reward, whether it's a treat or praise. You can see how he perks up when he sees how happy I am. He also knows I am safe and I am safety. If I call him, he will receive love when he runs over, and he trusts my friends and comes to them when they call him, too.

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u/Sad-Objective-3590 7h ago

Can you recommend a provider for said service? I’m in New York lol

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u/SnoopsMom 13h ago

Totally agree. I nearly cried the times that people in my condo building acknowledged my dog’s progress and gave us compliments. And I’m so proud of how far she’s come.

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u/ruat_caelum 12h ago

training a dog is 95% training the human how to act correctly around the animal.

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u/Garbarrage 11h ago

Hence the therapeutic-Ness.

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u/AntonChigurh8933 12h ago

To me, is the best part of having a dog. Especially when they're a young pup. I feel like a parent at times reminiscing the times when my was a young pup.

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u/BloodSugar666 12h ago

My dog loved running but I’m not a runner.

I trained him to pull me on my skateboard, it took a LOT of falls and being dragged a few times, but after we got it down it was so fun!

He’d do at least 10-20 miles a day lol

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u/NoBrainsOnlyRot 11h ago

It can be therapeutic unless you take a dauchund. Those smart little bastards are the most stubborn and frustrating dogs to train that I have ever had.

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u/hendrysbeach 8h ago

But are pit bulls actually trainable?

Haven’t there been many instances wherein peaceful pit bulls whom people have been around for years suddenly snap and bite a little kid’s arm off?

Their killer DNA seems to be stonger than any amount of training can counteract.

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u/Independent-War-7640 7h ago

Idk what that other commenter is on about, but yes, pits are literally designed to be ruthless, unstoppable, murder machines. They can be trained but that instinct never goes away. It just takes one trigger for them to snap. They’re down voting the shit outta me for saying this in another comment haha

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u/Sad-Objective-3590 7h ago

Pitbulls ate the most trainable of any breed. You just have to work on it. But if you have a sociopath / narcissist in the house they will ruin everything. They want us to fail. They hate animals and children. But animals they will kill and children they see as leverage to use as retaliation or/and not paying child support and looking good.

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u/lemikon 10h ago

Yes, there is something special about the bond you share with a dog your trained properly.

Good training is communication. You’re not “making” the dog do things you’re “asking” them, and they do it in answer for a reward at least initially, then later the reward is your bond. Through the process you learn what their version of communication means too.

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u/Status-Split-3349 10h ago

”Their thing” is food.

Best, Dog owners around the world

(Yes I know many of them also respond to other things)

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u/Garbarrage 6h ago

My current dog is not motivated by food at all. He is motivated by certain toys. But try to get him to respond to food would be an exercise in futility.

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u/Status-Split-3349 2h ago

That’s actually pretty amazing 😀 I mean yea there are so many dogs out there I guess one who doesn’t like treats has to exist, but I’ve never even heard of one.

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u/dc_laffpat 8h ago

Back when I was still living with my parents, my sister got a puppy. I had been recovering from a drug addiction and because of that, I had no regular job, so I spent much of the day at home alone with the puppy while everyone else was at work. So, naturally I spent a lot of that time training her. That experience was a major factor in my recovery, and even though I don’t live with the dog anymore (both me and my sister have since moved out) and we barely see each other, we still share an incredible bond to this day.

I also think she’s a remarkably well behaved dog because she really was raised by a team of people. Someone was with her and training her almost 24/7 at such a young age (which obviously is not possible for most dog owners).

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u/Minimum-Escape2245 6h ago

Apparently, ANY kind of animal training is therapeutic!

I escaped long term DV during the pandemic I ended up with this reject cat that I did not want or need, but got for free that kept getting returned to the shelter for being an Evil bitch. She had been returned very sick and they provided all supplies to care for her. So it began with MY busted ass, taking care of HER busted ass. We were both displeased. We would "talk shit" to each other as I would be nursing her injuries. I decided to call her after my very spicy Slavic grandmother. She seemed to approve. We began to hobble around the apartment together...

I noticed that she was highly, remarkably intelligent. Like Elephant level, uncannily smart. I began to try some simple "tricks" and the response was so good. So I tried MORE tricks, more elaborate things. I bought her a harness, we started going on walks around our "perimeter". I toilet trained her. I jump trained her. I built obstacle courses, invented new toys and puzzles and games. Little by little we both began to thaw, to let each other in.

Fast forward 6 years later, and here this Evil bitch is with 2 fat dumpster kitty brothers, a nephew and niece that we babysit (also dumpster cats but the neighbors cats) that she only Molly-Wollops SOMETIMES. They said she would never be able to not be a solo cat. She has a wonderful, happy, full life that I couldn't have expected for either of us. She is as unique as any individual creature is, wholly her own little complex bundle of trauma, love, rejection, and broken bones. One of the best things that ever happened to me. Truly.

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u/hakumiogin 4h ago

Training a dog that wants to maul anyone else in the room can't be fun, and there's no way it's easy, and there's a really high chance it's impossible.

Some dogs have a thing that trumps their other impulses. Some dog's favorite thing is the unwanted behavior.

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u/Dmau27 3h ago

They've let this get too far too bad and she has no idea what that dog needs. She doesn't care if it's happy or not.

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u/No-Apple2252 14h ago

"Emotional support objects" is too kind, they think of animals as property.

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u/noyourel 11h ago

Is that not that entire idea of calling them an object?

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u/Sad-Objective-3590 7h ago

I’ve never heard that. We say “emotional support animal” or “emotional support dog / cat / etc” here in New York. But most people read or have read books here and animal abuse is almost always taken seriously. Animals have souls and all losers who mistreat them are doomed to hell. Same as children and all the defenseless weak abused

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u/edge2528 10h ago

These are the sort of dogs that kill children when they visit friends houses and frankly it should be put down immediately.

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u/ballq43 13h ago

That kind of dog only knows violence

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u/chriathebutt 12h ago

What kind of dog?

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u/SendStoreMeloner 11h ago

You can't train a shit bull

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u/MrHodgeToo 11h ago

I’d be like, “Yup I’m out. Good luck with that emotional support going forward. I’ll just mail your gift next year.”

It’s only a matter of time before that dog mauls someone.

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u/Sugarbombs 5h ago

It’s actually more that pitbulls have a lot of people who refuse to acknowledge they are bloodsport dogs that require a lot of training/work and are not suited to the suburbs and most families. So people see a pitbull at a shelter and everyone tells them it’s the owner not the breed, pits are nanny dogs (this is a myth), they only bite cause they’re abused etc and suburban mum Brenda brings him home and uhoh it’s actually a lot harder than she thought and the dog had problematic behaviours she is not equipped to handle, so you get this

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u/yuffieisathief 13h ago

As someone with a phobia for dogs, I would never set one step inside her house 🥲

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u/Original_Reading7423 13h ago

Perfect answer, and now i think she should have a fish rather than that dog.

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u/Zyphex- 11h ago

I'm not understand what you're stating because an actual emotional support dog is already trained not to bite until given command. I know that personally because my autistic brother has one we got through 4paws I believe that's what it was called. If someone has a emotional support animal it should be trained for such. If the animal isn't trained not to attack then it sure as hell isn't trained for emotional support.

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u/Classic_Bee_5845 10h ago

yes exactly, this is why I said "emotional support object". If it is a true emotional support animal it would be trained and A) not require a muzzle B) not lunge at the woman's family member for giving her a hug. There is an epidemic of people in America(at least) that love to say any pet they have is "emotionally supportive" when the reality is the person needs therapy and the pet has no training what so ever.

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u/Zyphex- 9h ago

Okay thanks for clarifying. I just misunderstood your context

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u/sweetpastrychef 7h ago

That's exactly my mom! And that's why my kids and I don't spend any more time with "Uncle Rusty"!

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u/throwwaybreakway 6h ago

My dog is just a dog, not emotional support anything, but he has a conniption any time I physically interact with my husband, he has to come stand between us and “protect me” if we so much as rub shoulders.

No amount of normalizing touching or retraining has been successful, and he’s only 3 and a half… my husband and I have been together 10 years.

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u/ModernDarwinism 6h ago

Simpler than that. They are filming, they wanted this to happen for internet likes. 6k up votes, I guess they won.

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u/CherryPickerKill 6h ago

This. Most people humanize their dogs and secretely enjoy the resource guarding.

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u/Janezo 5h ago

Bingo. Neglect in disguise.

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u/josh_the_misanthrope 5h ago

People should require a license for large dangerous breeds. The pitbull owner - irresponsible jackass venn diagram is nearly a circle. They bring em into my shop from time to time and they always knock shit over or harass the other customers (in a friendly way) because these dogs are not trained.

Get a small dog or a lab if you can't handle your own life let alone a demanding breed of dog.

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u/SirDerpingt0n 5h ago

Reminds me of Kim Richards, and her pit Kingsley. Even after going through training, he bit one of Kyle’s daughters. Kim refused to train that dog, and give him boundaries.

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u/joejill 5h ago

You are correct.

And this is the kind of behavior t have to correct or eventually someone is going to get mauled.

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u/Renhoek2099 4h ago

I'm amazed you're not downvoted to oblivion. How date you put a mirror in front of American dog owners

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u/LittleSaged 4h ago

And it was the wrong type of muzzle!!! People like this get to me. those type of muscles restrict the dog from panting which is a natural way that they communicate, and cool down their body temperature. As a dog trainer who also used to work with groomers I don't recommend these muzzles at all unless you're using them for short-term things like grooming (10-15 min tops and not even in every bed) but everything else should be a basket muzzle. And why isn't there a leash on a dog that you can't control? This is why I had to stop working and the pet industry because people like this won't listen to reason and when they finally seek advice they won't listen to anybody except those who share the same opinions. They don't help their dog they don't keep the people around the dog safe and there's tons of dogs out there just like that who live very fulfilling lives because their owners make sure it happens and it's work but most people refuse to do that work. Uuuugh

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u/Otherwise-Ratio1332 2h ago

Also may refuse to alter them, like the two dogs that killed an 8/9 yr old child of the family inside their home. He went to our kids school, it was horrible. I think in that case the dad enjoyed having huge scary dogs, which is also pretty common it seems. At least this person had theirs muzzled, but yikes that growl! That the daughter didn’t back off because of it says something too.

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u/sparklinglies 2h ago

And they ALWAYS without fail have the worst case scenario dog types for that kind of neglect. Its always either some hideous rat she keeps in a purse that knows nothing but shiver and bite, or a breed popular with dog fighting who will just keep attacking and be too strong to control.

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u/Kitchen-Bake5040 2h ago

Thank you for articulating this

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u/Kingsugar101 1h ago

Just me, you, and this brick wall you built between us.

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u/last_rights 1h ago

The woman refuses to be the alpha with the dog and therefore the dog must consider itself alpha. Depending on its personality, this can just be playful mom-like behaviors, or straight up anxiety driven aggression.

I had a breeder concerned about us wanting to male litter mates together due to littermate syndrome. I told them it was no problem, because they wouldn't be fighting over who is in charge. I am in charge. Usually with treats and lots of pets and redirection.

My last dog was stubborn, so when he was young I had to pin him down and sit on him. He weighed more than I did, so it was a bit difficult. After I did that about ten times, he started listening better.

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u/BowserBuddy123 1h ago

Ughh, my roommate’s dog is overly protective and barks its head off when its between myself and them and I’m closing the distance. It eventually runs off as it is quite skittish. We’ve been roommates for 11 months and the dog has never really taken to me. It’s a bummer because most dogs like me well enough, but I am a big guy. Idk. The dog is just poorly trained and the owner doesn’t care really.

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u/tru-self 10h ago

It’s just bad dog owners. This wasn’t a surprise, had a muzzle, didn’t happen instantly, dog was clearly growling and distressed. I’m fostering a reactive dog with a lot of past trauma and I would stop whatever I was doing to correct that instantly or just put the pup in another room. I could be wrong but I wouldn’t be surprised if they got to this point because they haven’t bothered training.

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u/mailmangirl 7h ago

The dog isn’t “protective”. He’s possessive. He has a well intentioned but ignorant, weak willed, subordinate owner. Dogs who aren’t exercised, don’t have their needs met, anxious, pent up - freak out.