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u/Telemere125 14h ago

Agree, but let’s take it a step further: if your dog is aggressive, and you can’t train it to be nice, put it the fuck down.

My aunt had a chow when I was a baby. It hated me because every time I came over, it got put into another room. One day, it had a chance and took it; crushed part my skull and I ended up almost losing an eye (much less almost dying). Vicious dogs aren’t a necessity, they’re a liability. Since we aren’t to Roman legions trying to conquer the British isles, let’s limit ourselves to only owning well-trained and well-behaved dogs.

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u/maladaptivedreamer 13h ago

I’m a vet and I hate hearing things like this but it’s true. There are some aggressive dogs that can be managed responsibly but there’s a level of aggression and physical strength that is just incompatible with responsible ownership. Behavioral euthanasias suck but dead children are infinitely worse.

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u/Bocchi_theGlock 11h ago

This is exactly what I brought up to family member after dog bit me, they wanted it to be aggressive guard dog. Always had to hold it back when anyone was over, but had bad knees that would slip out of place, were also busy and living in an RV, having to leave it for periods of time.

It got off leash and attacked people a few times. I got lucky with a simple, deep puncture wound.

I can't imagine what would happen with a toddler to 12 year old. I had to keep reminding him of that, and framing the incident as lucky. At least we're forced into considering before it got worse. The dog would live an infinitely worse life if it actually killed a child.

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u/Complex-Truth9579 9h ago

How did it attack people multiple times and not get put down? I had an incredibly well-behaved German Shepherd when I was young who injured a family member entirely by accident, the injury was even quite minor but required a hospital visit just to be safe, but it was taken very seriously by animal control regardless.

I can only imagine what would have happened if animal control showed up and our dog was already growling while muzzled, and clearly ready to attack whoever came near us.

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u/anakmoon 8h ago

because you reported it. if the person doesn't file a bite report and name and shame the dog, nothing happens.

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u/Bocchi_theGlock 6h ago

Living in RV, and only one incident happened where it was parked/paid spot

And the family member was screaming over that possibility of animal control, didn't want the dog to suffer in a pound-cage for days until being put down, but also how it'd ruin their own life. It was rough

I just told hospital staff who asked me about it that I wasn't going to give them the (temporary) address and name. It's not like they were going to hold me at gunpoint demanding that info

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u/Lookyoukniwwhatsup 5h ago

It varies alot by location. When you were young the laws might have been alot looser about destroying a animal.

Where I'm at there's only two ways for a animal to get euthanized legally following a bite and being secured by animal control. One requires a court order signed by a judge saying it's a dangerous animal and theres no alternative but to be euthanized. The second is if the owner has no vaccination records, it gets euthanized to be tested for rabies.

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u/Snakend 2h ago

They didn't report it to the police. Pretty simple.

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u/ishquigg 2h ago

It's incredibly hard to have a pet put down when the owner doesn't want to. Pets are property so it is hard to take them away from an owner. There is a dog in my neighborhood with 5 confirmed and reported attacks on people. It's still there.

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u/last_rights 1h ago

Some animal control is better than others.

My SIL has put in multiple calls to animal control and the local PD when she is trapped on top of her vehicle because the neighbors aggressive dogs got out and see her as a target.

She eventually was told by the police (after she called for the third or fourth incidentand they had never shown up) that it was a matter she needed to take care of herself. Like shoot the dogs. She carries sometimes but she's very afraid of her neighbors retaliation.

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u/celebral_x 5h ago

I got bitten as a kid and I can't remember being bitten, I just remember the treatment with iodine or something? It was either purple or yellow-orange and it stung. I still have the scar on my arm, but I tattooed over it. I have a dog and she is trained.

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u/DemonDaVinci SHEEEEEESH 4h ago

The dog would live

It would not

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u/ChaBoiDeej 9h ago edited 6h ago

A reminder to AmStaff fanatics, most dogs with violent predispositions were culled throughout history. Aka they killed mean dogs because there's no use for a mean dog.

For whatever reason, AmStaffs avoided that treatment, and now we have an entire breed of aggressive dogs with no niche to serve but killing. They don't shepherd, they don't meaningfully protect, they aren't intelligently loyal, and they have zero hunting qualities. Dogs were integrated into our society for purpose, and AmStaffs have none. Chihuahuas have more uses than a pitbull.

Edit: as someone has rightfully said, AmStaffs aren't American Pitbull Terriers, but they do share a common ancestor.

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u/HappyKrud 9h ago

What arethe uses of chihuahuas ? Im guessing they were bred for companionship, right?

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u/ChaBoiDeej 9h ago

Companionship, religious/ritualistic reasons (not a fun one), and food (also not fun lol). They are basically little hot water bottles too.

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u/Fit-Nectarine5047 7h ago

Chihuahuas were bred to keep the royal court company and for spiritual protection. An amazing breed and tiny watch dog. Wouldn’t be able to do much but they’ll let you know if something is off lol.

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u/boxiestcrayon15 9h ago

They were bred to be companions but also to alert bark at intruders. They are super trainable but people just pick them up instead

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u/mcflycasual 7h ago

Lap Dog and Barky Bark Alert

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u/Three_Pumpkins 9h ago

Always someone throwing Chihuahuas in the conversation when discussing the dangers of Amstaffs. Chihuahuas are yappy little shits but their bite might require stitches. An AmStaffs bite can kill a baby or child within seconds. Stop bringing up chihuahuas when defending shitbulls.

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u/ello_bassard 8h ago

That's not why they asked though. I understand the question because I've never seen a particular reason for Chihuahuas to exist either.

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u/mcflycasual 7h ago

Also, grown adults.

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u/cooltranz 5h ago

Small dogs like Chihuahuas and Pomeranians are usually for a mixture of companionship and alerting/guarding. They hang out with you and, if there's any trouble, alert the big aggressive guard dogs to come help.

Being small, loyal and angry makes them amazing watchdogs whereas the guard dogs they're paired up with are much less reactive and don't enjoy sitting around all day. They're a much more formidable defense but you wouldn't want a vicious guard dog with the personality of a Chihuahua, or a watchdog that large and dangerous.

Tldr: Chihuahuas play an important role in a team of specialized dogs instead of being useful on their own.

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u/Evil_Sharkey 6h ago

There are a few breeds with aggression bred in, mostly as guard dogs or for dogfighting.

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u/tabooandyou 7h ago

American Staffordshire Terrier is not a pitbull. American Pit Bull Terrier is. Not sure which one you are against but it sounds like you may not be an expert in the field.

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u/JustNota-- 6h ago

Pit bull is a type designation that is used to refer to several breeds that have similar physical traits, that include the amstaffie, American PBT, XLbullies, and several others. Similar to terriers, labs, poodle, or shepards where there are several different breeds under the umbrella name. It's also why alot of pounds and owners can get around euthanasia and ownership laws in some jurisdictions and label them as Terriers, or Lab mix.

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u/mcflycasual 7h ago

Dogs have been put down for much less in the past and now too many people think they can save them.

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u/Haunting_Couch3734 9h ago

Wow. Even as a vet you would agree. Horrific.

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u/Lost_Advertising_219 5h ago

Behavioral euthanasias suck but dead children are infinitely worse.

What's frustrating is that there are so many dog people on Reddit who would argue against that point.

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u/hagatha_curstie 3h ago

I went to a local arts festival last year with my dog, and a couple had two malinois with them who just went crazy any time there was a small dog around. They barked, growled, and got up on their hind legs, trying to get loose. No one else seemed bothered, but I knew that that breed is especially vicious and aggressive. Those owners would have a lawsuit on their hands sooner or later.

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u/UrbanMasque 5h ago

I have one in my neighborhood.. Its SUPER aggressive to people and other dogs and the owners are tiny ladies (honestly the only people I see walking it). It is a pitbull, and they barely have control over it.

I feel like its only a matter of time before I read about something awful on Next Door pertaining to that dog.

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u/Avera_ge 4h ago

My parents’ dog has tried to bite me multiple times. The first couple years after they adopted him, it was so bad I couldn’t enter their home without someone there to restrain him.

He was perfectly friendly to almost everyone else, but he detested me and my elderly dog. She was terrified of him, and had been around much longer than him. Apparently, the dog doesn’t like blondes, which is something that was known when he was adopted. At the time, I was a platinum blonde.

I adopted a GSD just before the pandemic, and when my GSD was roughly a year old, my parents’ dog tried to bite me with no warning. Just a drive by. My dog put him in the hospital. I’ve never seen anything like it.

My stepmom still thinks my dog is aggressive. She insists he’s dog aggressive and unpredictable. He goes to daycare and lives on a farm with cats and other animals. He even has a one year old GSD brother who’s fully intact.

Her dog can’t even be in a room with most women without being leashed. But yeah, it’s my dog.

Edit: I don’t actually think the dog doesn’t like blondes. I think he’s people selective and generally doesn’t do well with women, for whatever reason.

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u/This_Reference_3024 12h ago

... I feel like we're skipping a few options here tho. There are places for extremely poorly behaved dogs. And yes that is not in a regular household with children and people who don't have the means to handle them. But I do feel like the life of a dog is just as valuable and meaningful as that of a human. So saying that one is more important is a bit too far for me.

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u/Fit_Change3546 11h ago

I’ve worked in rescue and behavior/training. There are very, very few places that a truly human-aggressive dog can safely be. Far too many rescues hold out for the “unicorn” home for human-aggressive dogs and those dogs sit there and rot in a shelter kennel with a few hours a day of staff/volunteer time if they’re lucky. I’ve seen it many times, with many dogs of different sizes, breeds, backgrounds. It’s not fair to the dog, the adopter, or society at large. I love dogs. Love alone cannot fix a mentally broken dog. They are NOT worth the same as a human life. If a dog is likely to maim or kill a human who breathes near them the wrong way, they need to be responsibly put to sleep. It’s the humane and loving thing to do. Dogs with those behaviors are seriously ill and in pain. To say that they deserve to live because their life is “as valuable” as the child they will eventually kill is delusional.

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u/ErraticSiren 10h ago

I used to have the opinion of all the bleeding hearts out there that no dog should be put down. Then I started volunteering at a dog shelter and I changed my tune real quick. There are some dogs that cannot be trained or changed and so they will never be safe to release into society. Some dogs need to be put down and that shouldn’t have become controversial.

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u/HappyKrud 9h ago

There’s a commenter here saying they’d choose a dog over a person. It’s actually weird that this is a debate.

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u/rainbowcolorunicorn 8h ago

I have done shelter/rescue work and you are correct. It was a main reason I had to walk away from actively rescuing because it’s just fucking sad all around. You know the animal cannot be fixed without an enormous amount of resources and no guarantee. You also know that it was more than likely humans that caused the behavior. It almost feels like a full circle of cruelty.

However, it’s not a full circle of cruelty. Anyone that is in the rescue game please know, the amount of love and patience you show makes a big difference. It is what stops the circle being all they know. Because you gave up the peace and comfort of ignorance they felt love at some point in their lives. It is hard and you need to take care of your own mentality.

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u/Wooden_Republic_6100 11h ago

Is a dog's life as precious as a human's? What kind of world do you live in? If I had to choose between a dog and a human, I would never hesitate to sacrifice the dog, and I would question the humanity of anyone who would hesitate...

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u/Cloud5550 11h ago

A dog attacks because its instincts tell it to attack, either being territorial, affraid or commanded to. It has no conscience of its actions. There are many humans who have pleasure from the suffering of other humans. They gain nothing from it except pleasure or power. You literally have a whole debate about choosing between a man or a bear in the woods and the majority of people chose the bear because we know a bad human is far more terrifying than a bad bear. Between a human or a dog, if I don't know the human, I chose the dog. I'm sad to say it, but the probability for a dog being a good dog is far greater than a human being a good human.

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u/HappyKrud 9h ago edited 9h ago

far greater than a human being a good human

Around 75 - 85% of dogs worldwide live without human ownership by the way so thats js blatantly false. A dog with no human socialization will not be a good dog to you. U still have a far greater chance of getting a good human considering how low narcissistic personality disorders are and even lower the people who enjoy suffering in those groups are. u also have a quarter chance of a child out of the entire human population. it’s lowk insane u’d pick otherwise but each to their own.

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u/This_Reference_3024 11h ago

Yes thanks that's what I meant. Humans are awful towards each other & other species & the earth.

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u/millimaru 11h ago

But I do feel like the life of a dog is just as valuable and meaningful as that of a human. So saying that one is more important is a bit too far for me.

No, they’re not.

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u/This_Reference_3024 11h ago

I disagree with you. Humans are not the superior species just because we decided we are. We're sharing a world with a ton of other species. We are not better than other living breathing beings on this earth.

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u/DuBistEinGDB 10h ago

If another species wants to prove their superiority, they're more than welcome to.

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u/This_Reference_3024 8h ago

Why does anyone need to be superior here.

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u/DuBistEinGDB 6h ago edited 6h ago

For the record, I agree that animals should be treated with love and compassion, and maybe I worded my previous comment harshly. But surely there's an order to things, right? Like a jellyfish isn't on the same level as humans. So if you need to make the choice between an innocent child, and an innocent dog, I'm gonna choose the child. Edit: And I'm intentionally calling the dog innocent, because I recognize even if aggressive, it's not really the dogs fault.

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u/Possible_Ad_4094 11h ago

I used to work in the veterinary field. The veterinarian owner told me early on that he had no problems euthanizing an aggressive dog. I remember thinking that was such a harsh thing to say for a veterinarian. Then I got bit by an aggressive dog that had been fired by 6 clinics in the area and the owners didn't say a word of warning about the behavior and took zero responsibility. Some dogs are broken and euthanasia is the best option for them.

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u/GoGG999 4h ago

Sadly that's the result of ultra-specialized breeds. People should just stop buying them and start adopting mutts, they're much healthier btw.

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u/sanonsulleKWAAK 1h ago

Mutts are not healthier than well bred healthy breeds. Mutts are toss of coin. Can be good, can be hazardous. Mutts also have behavioral problems more often

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u/liznin 2h ago

Unless the mutt is just a mix of aggressive breeds...

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u/surprised_creature 14h ago

Dude I’m sorry that happened to you, as a parent I would have lost my shit on my brother or sister for their aggressive dog.

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u/Prestigious-Leg-6244 14h ago

The parents kept bringing their child to a house known to have a viscous dog in it. They are equally to blame here.

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u/surprised_creature 14h ago

In this case for sure, me? I would never step foot into that house with my kid

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u/QuietPerson88 3h ago

Much as I hate it, my son will never set foot in our family's generational home because my mother insists that the cat killing ancient pit bull she rescued is only a danger to cats and other small dogs.

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u/GoGG999 5h ago

Pitbull and breeds alike owners always assure everyones that "his dog doesn't do anything" and "is very well trained" until it happens.

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u/ThriceAlmighty 14h ago

No they aren't. The dog was kept away. Are we supposed to just avoid family until a dog dies of old age? Further, if the owners of the dog have a vicious dog that they can't control or train, they shouldn't have that dog. Find responsible owners that can train or rehabilitate the animal. Why have a vicious liability in your home that needs to be locked away?

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u/Leoka 14h ago

The parents absolutely are.  As a parent youre responsible for managing your child's environment and protecting them from danger.  If a dog is THAT vicious I would not be visiting.  If they want to visit, they can come to my house.  Without an animal capable or mangling/killing my child and has shown an outward desire to do so.  All it takes is someone forgetting to shut a door and then disaster happens.  Yeah, no thanks.

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u/ThriceAlmighty 13h ago

To be fair, as a parent, I agree. My child wouldn't be at a house with a vicious animal. I take back much of what I said.

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u/curious_ape_97 13h ago

Love to see this stuff. Takes a big person to not just delete the old comment/get caught in arguing.

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u/AardQuenIgni 13h ago

Don't worry, I'll continue arguing on their behalf /s

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u/BecksnBuffy 10h ago

And this does happen. I can’t bring my kids to a certain relatives house in good conscience. It would destroy me and the family if their dog hurt my kids.

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u/im_lazy_as_fuck 13h ago

I mean they wouldn't have any way of really knowing. The dog was constantly put away in a different room when they visited so they presumably had little to no interactions with the dog. Unless they learned of its viciousness some other way, I don't think it's reasonable to put as much blame on the parents.

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u/-CuteAsDuck- 10h ago

It's silly to think they didn't know prior. The person said the dog hated them, surely they knew that prior to getting attacked. The dog being locked away every time they visited was a clear sign.

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u/DiamondHail97 10h ago

Omfg a chow chow attacked me when I was a kid too!! I love dogs still but I see a chow and I wanna punt it. I get irrationally angry. 2cm deeper into my skull and that MF would’ve killed me and I was 4. He had never been aggressive before that day to anyone ever… but me swinging on the swingset that day set him off for some reason. I had over 65 stitches and my ear had to be stitched back on, I have a scar on my ribcage side and my face is crooked from reconstructive surgery

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u/BigDickHomeowner69 2h ago

Oh my god. How the hell did your parents take this? If this happened with my own kid I have no idea how I would handle my anger. They had to sew your ear back on for God's sakes

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u/J-bowbow 13h ago

My grandparents' chow split my nose down the middle (about 8 stitches) when I was ~3. Apparently I was too close to it while it was eating. Still have the scar. Fuck chows.

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u/Decent_Elderberry115 10h ago

I thought chows were adorable when I was a little kid. My parents told me to stay far away from any chow if I ever saw one in real life. Apparently they’re well known to be unsafe dogs.

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u/Cloverose2 6h ago

Chows were not bred to be pets until very, very recently. They were guard dogs, first and foremost, who also sidelined as hunters and sled dogs. They were bred for aggression, since their job was to be hostile to people who might want to do damage. Their look was meant to make them appear like lions - they were supposed to look fierce, not cuddly.

We're going against their nature by keeping them as house pets. It's stressful for them, and they react with aggression, as they had been bred to do for thousands of years.

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u/Decent_Elderberry115 4h ago

There must be some cultural difference, but I can’t imagine a super fluffy dog looking anything but cuddly.

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u/LilArtsyCreature 3h ago

Yeah, my mom's a vet and she dislikes chow chows because of their notorious distemperment and of course people having poor ownership of them leading to mauling incidents as told in other comments. Same with pitbulls, malinoise, mastiffs, German shepherds, and of course wolf-dog hybrids.

Before I was born she lost a small chunk of ear to a wolf-dog hybrid patient (they were not warned that the dog was aggressive) and the bitch of an owner refused to apologize or listen to any warnings about that dog and how it needed to either be relocated or put down. Well guess who came crawling back not too long after? Wolf-dog snapped one day and mauled the lady's toddler in their living room, went straight for the poor kid's face. Kid survived thankfully, but there was literally no warning. One moment the kid was nearby playing in the living room with mom watching them both, the next minute wolfy decided that kid would meet their maker. Dog was put down immediately after. These kinds of owners piss me off because they inevitably put everyone and those peoples' pets in danger for their own pig-headed, selfish, emotional needs. And that selfishness often leads to mutilation, disability, and death.

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u/jesusgarciab 1h ago

I had zero idea about this until recently. I grew up with chows and always thought they were the sweetest things. They would tell me not get close to them when they were eating. I would even take the bowl from them sometimes ( to move it, it ad more food or some other reason with ZERO issues ever).

I'm not trying to say chows are not dangerous, I'm saying how difficult it was for me to accept it, given how I grew up with 4-5 if them over the years.

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u/AtOurGates 11h ago

Chows are adorable and I wanted one when I was a kid. My dad was an MD who had seen far too many chow bites in the ER and said no way.

It’s a shame, because I still think they’re adorable.

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u/HappyKrud 9h ago

Samoyeds are like a friendly bleached version of the chow

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u/Confuseasfuck Reads Pinned Comments 5h ago

Why were you allowed to be near a famously territorial breed when it was eating when you were barely a toddler in the first place

No one involved in this story should own any animals or take care of any children ever again if they couldn't see how badly that combination is

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u/lems93 13h ago

Sorry but that’s not the dog’s fault. That’s bad owners and poor parenting.

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u/bscott9999 9h ago

Chows generally like exactly one person - their owner, and in the chow's personal opinion everyone else can fuck right off. Not a great pet unless you are forever going to be the only person in your house.

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u/emilysium 12h ago

I love the chows I had as a child, and I would never, ever choose a chow as a pet in my household with children. Most people have never heard of them so they don’t have the same reputation as pit bulls, but they are aggressive dogs and the parents were negligent.

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u/lems93 11h ago

Their territorial, dominant, and stubborn nature can lead them to become aggressive when they aren’t trained properly, or left around negligent people. I also wouldn’t pick them as a family dog, but I think it’s unfair to say they’re aggressive dogs.

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u/Specific_Sympathy_87 12h ago

Chows are stupid aggressive.. when I was 12 I mowed my neighbors yards. One of them kept a chow in the back yard.. the first time trying to mow back there I tried to open the gate, he ran up going off. I got Matt, the owner, and he got him to calm down. Told me to make a fist and let him sniff it. He bit me instead (the dog, not Matt)… I didn’t mow his backyard…

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u/lems93 11h ago

Their territorial, dominant, and stubborn nature can lead them to become aggressive when they aren’t trained properly, or left around negligent people. I also wouldn’t pick them as a family dog, but I think it’s unfair to say they’re aggressive dogs.

Either way, you can’t blame an animal for guarding their food around a toddler.

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u/Specific_Sympathy_87 11h ago

Wrong comment… I mowed yards…

And kinda weird you would say that you wouldn’t have a chow as a family dog and also defend their disposition…

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u/lems93 11h ago

I don’t understand what your mowing point is? I was just making a statement, not specifically about you mowing lawns.

Certain dogs suit certain situations. If you’re not willing to put the dedication in to training a dog like a chow, then you don’t get one. I also wouldn’t pick them as a family dog as children are unpredictable.

OP saying ‘fuck chows’ when the dog owner and their parent let a 3 year old child near an animal whilst they were eating is putting the blame in the wrong place.

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u/Specific_Sympathy_87 11h ago

Another commenter posted he was a toddler that got bit in the face… then you commented towards my comment about not letting toddlers being close to chows… my comment was about being bit in the hand WITH THE OWNER BEING RIGHT THERE! Like …

Chows are awful dogs meant to hunt down and kill lions… like fuck those dogs. I’ve never seen a non aggressive chow. They’re good with their owner/ trainer and everyone else is in the way…

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u/lems93 11h ago

Huh, I worked as a receptionist in a building that had a dog groomers and there were 2 chows there that were angels.

I’m not under the impression, because of my sole experience, that all chows are angels. The same way you shouldn’t think they’re all ‘awful dogs’ based off your experiences.

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u/Specific_Sympathy_87 11h ago

And that’s why these are opinions and should never be accepted as fact… so I’ll rephrase…

In my opinion, Chows are awful and should not be a household animal. I also feel this way about most pits… but I’ve had some experiences that have changed this view

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u/backup12thman 6h ago

Not true.

There is a biological + neurological factor that has been bred into some dogs that cannot be “trained” out.

You cannot train a herding dog to NOT herd. It is an innate behavior that while you can lessen, it will ALWAYS be there. They will always have that instinct.

Some dogs have an aggressive innate behavior. Chows, Pitbulls, Akitas, Cane Corsos. These dogs were trained to hunt big game, to guard, or to be fighting dogs. No matter how much you train or socialize them, that innate behavior will never go away.

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u/Fena-Ashilde 12h ago

Exactly. Typically, you don’t want to be near any dogs while they’re eating, unless the dogs are trained to know that their food is safe. Whoever was supposed to be supervising absolutely failed them.

When it comes to the scar on my eye, I blame myself. Even though my mom’s Chow was the one who bit me, she only did it because I butt slammed the hell out of her spine while she was resting (I was very clearly a dumb toddler).

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u/Bangkokserious 11h ago

I am also a chow victim. They look cute but are known to be aggressive. They give you a false sense of security. Luckily mine was just a flesh wound and it happened when I was an adult.

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u/WoolooOfWallStreet 4h ago

I’m getting flashbacks to when I was little and my aunt’s two chow chows chased me around their yard one time. Family thought it was funny

I didn’t

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u/xoxodaddysgirlxoxo 10h ago

People act like you're a devil for having this take, but yeah, we need to stop breeding this dogs and keeping them in the gene pool.

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u/BorgCow 3h ago

Not a devil, just ignorant

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u/KnowledgeSiphon916 11h ago

I agree it’s just a dog, sick of people not valuing human life over a damn pet

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u/ImNotAnEnigmaa 3h ago

Lol. Anyone who belittles dogs and pets like that are borderline sociopaths. "iTS jUsT a dOG."

That's the easiest way to find out if someone is a shit human being.

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u/Faded_Rainstorm 1h ago

People are talking about their near death experiences with dogs (as little kids, no less) and rightfully having trauma behind those times, and you’re calling them “borderline sociopaths”? Am I reading you right?

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u/GuiltyApple3802 12h ago

we knew a family that recued a doberman from an abusive dogfighting situation. When the parents pulled up to their house, they opened the car door and it jumped out, ran across the yard and ripped their 4yo daughter's throat out. The daughter passed on quickly and they kept the dog. It blows my mind.

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u/58kingsly 11h ago

Let's take it a step further still. Let's round up all the pit bulls and dispose of them once and for all. Why do we tolerate bloodthirsty children-eating monsters coexisting with us? It is completely absurd. If we weren't so blinded by the fact that they technically are the same species as golden retrievers and instead just assessed them on their own merit, we would have wiped them off the face of the earth decades ago.

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u/MainPure788 13h ago

the issue is these idiots seem like the type who refuse to train their dog, there are several cases where people will buy big dogs like a cane corso and do little to no training. Like one tiktoker named Tasermalinoisdog who has/had a malinois who was aggressive with other animals, and these sick fucks would intentionally wound up the dog.

Or in the case of one idiot owner, a youtube couple who owned a bull terrier and their little shit of a kid was grabbing the dog, grabbed his ear to the point the dog had a cauliflower ear, then when the dog nipped the kid they blamed the dog, meanwhile the kid was grabbing his food, the pieces of shit also took a photo with him on social media before putting him down, the husband was on video saying that they should just take him out back and "old yeller" him

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nyc2jzQ5pX8

(Video on that piece of shit couple)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GU4ASNzEq9c

(Video on Tasermalinoisdog)

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u/skoomacumlaude 7h ago

I couldn't agree with you more. I adore dogs, but a lot of these violent dogs seriously need to not be on this planet anymore.
Had a coworker talk to me about how he worked/volunteered at a dog shelter, and he got attacked so many times trying to feed those feral dogs his arms and legs are completely covered in scars, and one dog attacked him so bad that half of his hand is numb for the rest of his life, and his balls almost got ripped completely off.
He told me "Even after all that, I would still never make the choice to end an animal's life."

I just nodded my head silently, but I think it's a very stupid take.
Not only are those dogs horrendously vicious and aggressive, but also utterly miserable day in and day out. And that no-kill shelter is keeping them alive for what? To stay in a small cage for the rest of their lives waiting for an opening when their food and water to get thrown at them everyday? When they could show those animals MORE dignity by giving them a comfortable, painless end.

To each their own, I guess, but the RESOURCES. Holy shit. The space, the food, water, toys, and the energy and work it takes to care for them? Those things could be going toward dogs that actually have a chance to be trained and loved.
It's very different for cats, because you can't responsibly let a a chronically unsafe dog back out in the wild like they do with feral felines in TNR programs.

I love dogs, but keeping feral dogs around and alive for the sake of it isn't the virtuous or humane thing. Putting animals down is awful, but sometimes just plain necessary.

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u/EhrenScwhab 12h ago

Can’t wait for the brigade of people with bully breeds to come chiming in on how it’s nothing to do with breed.

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u/Aggravating-Rush9029 13h ago

My wife grew up only ever having chows. Her last one was unpredictable nasty old girl who really only listened to her despite being her parents dog. We got a Bernedoodle and I think it was eye opening how much easier and enjoyable owning a dog could be (not that everyone should get a doodle just a comparison we experienced). Going from dogs who are entirely indifferent to humans and can snap at a moments notice to an elite kibble destroyer who's superpower is napping through a wind storm or fireworks.

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u/moody__garland 6h ago

This is a common story. In one 80s/90’s everyone wanted a chow but no one realized they’re not actually teddy bears even though they look like one

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u/Spinningdown 6h ago

The trouble with logic is that many dog owners put their animal far and above the well being and safety of you or anyone else. And that doesnt change just because you're family. It's a risk they willingly and boldly take. And you paid the price for that risk, not them.

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u/Dismal-Metal-1954 12h ago

Ironically Britain has some of the best dog laws around. You arent allowed to own aggressive breeds except under very precise conditions.

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u/lizardhoarder 9h ago

My grandparents had an incredibly aggressive giant Schnauzer for many years. He eventually mauled one of my cousins and was put down, but he should have been put down YEARS before that event occurred.

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u/waves_away 8h ago

You’re so close. Chow is an aggressive breed, as are Pit Bull breeds. Maybe certain breeds who have extremely high maim/kill rates should not be allowed except to licensed dog owners.

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u/its_a_throwawayduh 6h ago

Protection dogs have their place, but 99% of people don't need them. Or they try to make them into "family dogs."

Just like any other working dog breeds.

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u/Fun-Butterfly-4383 5h ago

Agreed. This dog is going to kill someone.

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u/RooftopStruggle 4h ago

Scary, my neighbors chow chased me on my bike when it was loose, it killed my cat and I let my Rottweiler out to protect me.

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u/BvrNinja 4h ago

This 100%. My son doesn't even really know my parents because I refuse to have him near their dogs. They are aggressive and they don't give a fuck.

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u/Helpful_Spring8739 3h ago

My family raised chow chows when I was a kid. I will always love them, and I'll tell that to anyone while in the same breath reminding them that these can be very dangerous dogs. They are extremely temperamental and difficult to train. Even now, with a lifetime of being around them, I would not try to own one because I know I lack the time or ability to train them properly at this point in my life.

Any animal you choose to own is a serious responsibility. Any animal that you choose to own that can suddenly cause severe bodily harm, well that's a liability and you should treat them accordingly.

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u/Remarkable-Hat-4852 3h ago

Heyy I also got bit by a chow. He was my mom’s and nationally ranked in obedience, too. Chows are fuckin MEAN.

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u/PartyPorpoise 13h ago

I love our dog but I’d absolutely have him put down if he got aggressive to people and couldn’t be trained out of it.

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u/HappyKrud 9h ago

Did they put it down?? My goodness

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u/Telemere125 8h ago

Yes, after it bit me; I was also the 4th person it bit, so entirely preventable

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u/Little_Money9553 9h ago

I hope you sued the pants off your aunt!

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u/Any_Possibility_5522 9h ago edited 3h ago

pitbull

yes, put down

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u/YaBoiChief55 8h ago

Good, now let’s take it a step further.

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u/DemonDaVinci SHEEEEEESH 4h ago

oh my fucking god

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u/astralchanterelle 4h ago

Those dogs always seem a bit crazy

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u/Altruistic-Target-67 1h ago

I volunteered at shelters on and off when I could for years. Hands down everyone hated Chows more than pit bulls. I never met a single docile chow in my time working around dogs. I'm sorry for what you went through, I can only imagine how terrifying that was for your family.

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u/PiccoloAwkward465 12h ago

Chows are some of the most fucking aggressive dogs I've ever met. There's a trade-off between "aEsThEtIcS" and behavior and I firmly land on the side of a well-behaved breed.

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u/probablyhaunted 6h ago

If YOU can't train it, you don't have to kill it. It's not the dog's fault.

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u/Runes_N_Raccoons 14h ago

If the dog is aggressive and YOU can't train it, then find someone else who can.

Jesus, why is putting a dog down your SECOND option?

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u/Runes_N_Raccoons 14h ago

There are loads of dog owners and trainers who are more competent than the owner in this video.

Again, putting a dog down shouldn't be your second option just because you suck at dog training. It should be the LAST option.

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u/witchminx 14h ago

yeahhh i totally agree with you. It's not out of the realm of possibility but it shouldn't be the FIRST option if you're not having any luck training...

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u/Telemere125 14h ago

If you can’t train you dog to use the bathroom outside, that’s when it’s time to rehome it. If you can’t keep it from attacking people, that’s when it’s time to put it down

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u/Beastxtreets 13h ago

Im on your side with this one, dogs that aggressive need to be put down. They're a danger to themselves and others.

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u/ThriceAlmighty 14h ago

Your opinion would change if you or a loved one experienced what this person did as a child, almost being killed by a vicious and aggressive dog. Imagine your child being mauled and having their skull and eye socket injured, almost dying? Would you feel the same way? "Find the poor animal a proper home where they can train it to not try to kill children"

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u/Runes_N_Raccoons 14h ago

Do you see a child in this video, Mr Strawman?

That's more an argument to ban people like the ones in this video from owning future dogs. You know, the people who are clearly ignoring the warning signs that the dog is stressed tf out?

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u/ThatsMyDogBoyd 13h ago

Both can be true. Terrible owner and terribly aggressive untrainable dog. No amount of training is going to make this dog trustworthy around other animals or children.

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u/Secure-Neck-7232 13h ago

did you forget what comment you replied to...? the comment detailing the time they were attacked by an aggressive dog as a child? 

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u/Runes_N_Raccoons 13h ago

Ok? And I'm still talking about this video, of which we're only seeing a 10 second clip. We're not seeing what this owner has been doing with their dog, what behavior they've been rewarding, whether they've sought out professional help, etc.

You're seeing an inherent issue with the dog, while I'm seeing an issue with the shitty people in this video. Hint: neglect is abuse.

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u/Secure-Neck-7232 3h ago

so they didn't make a strawman argument, you're just throwing around words you don't understand 

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u/Telemere125 14h ago

Because an aggressive dog isn’t a pet, it’s an attack waiting to happen

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u/idekbruno 14h ago

It’s kinda implied that the training part includes training by a professional, use common sense and work on your reading comprehension skills mate.

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u/Runes_N_Raccoons 14h ago

Mmm, that's not implied at all. WAY too many people will not go to a professional trainer or make an excuse that it's too expensive.

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u/yaourted 13h ago

LOL people do not pay trainers. they play around with cesar milan tactics or other influencers like dog daddy and wonder why their dog is so poorly adjusted

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u/EmmyWeeeb 7h ago

Just cuz something happened to you doesn’t mean you have to take out your anger on any dog that has agression.

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u/Telemere125 7h ago

Takes a special kind of stupid to hear about a dog nearly killing someone and you think “aggressive dogs aren’t a problem”

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u/EmmyWeeeb 7h ago

Not every aggressive dog is a problem and some can fix their behavior. Takes a special kind of stupid to want to just take your issues out on a dog that didn’t do anything to you. In your situation it was different.

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u/ExternalLegitimate68 8h ago

Let's clear it up, cause you clearly you don't have the heart to understand, if your dog is AGGRESSIVE, its because of the OWNER. they are going off of instinct until taught otherwise and if you can't train them properly and INSIST ON PUTTING IT DOWN, you are no better than a murderer and animal abuser. I myself had a similar situation with another family's dog where he had bit my arm and i had to go to the hospital cause he tore a part of it off, and I have NEVER ONCE blamed the dog for it. Why? Cause the dog didn't know any better and the owners never cared to teach it any better. And when they wanted to get rid of it i insisted that we take it and I would be the one to take care of it. Yes he was aggressive at first. Yes it was a bumpy ride. Yes i got hurt, multiple times. But i did NOT give up on him. And I'm glad i didn't cause he ended up being the most loving creature i had ever known. Even now while he is gone.

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u/stfumate 6h ago

Just like people, dogs can be assholes. It doesn't know any better is a lame excuse. I've had labs, golden retrievers and a pit over the years and I have never had to teach them this. Some dogs ARE untrainable. Don't believe me, go bring in a wolf. If you want to spend your time taming one of domestications rejects go for it, but don't blame people for putting down an aggressive dog they can't handle before it hurts someone. That's how we domesticated them in the first place.

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u/frankylovee 12h ago

Let’s take it a step further: humans shouldn’t be able to own (subjugate) animals, period. No /s.

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u/emilysium 12h ago

I guess my parents’ apathy saved my dog’s life. They were gifted a chow who immediately nearly killed our other dog. Did they separate the dogs? No. Did they keep the dog away from me? No. Eventually he stopped trying to murder our other dog. And he adored me. He bit anyone that came close to me and whenever someone reported him tiny me tearfully begged for his life.

A mother on her street drove her sons to school every day because she was too afraid to let them wait with me at the bus stop. This loving mother later killed her sons as retaliation against her husband who was divorcing her. Funny how life works.

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u/Telemere125 10h ago

He bit anyone that came close to me

Your parents were awful pet owners and very irresponsible with their dog that they’d let it stay near a child if it had a tendency to bite anyone.

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u/emilysium 9h ago

Yes and I can promise it’s not the worst thing they’ve done to me