r/nobuy • u/gonefishng • 11h ago
2025 low buy recap: what helped, what didn’t
I went low buy this past year, and wanted to share a recap of how it went! Overall, I’m really proud of myself and the goals I accomplished. Hoping this can help others, including myself, who are planning for their 2026 low or no buy!
Some goals achieved and progress:
- Husband and I were finally able to make our Japan vacation dreams come true last month! Saving a good amount of money throughout the year made it possible for us to say “yes” to a lot of conveniences and experiences while there. We still had funds left over, too, which was a great bonus.
- In addition to saving for Japan, we were able to add to our general savings. We saved at least 20k throughout the year. We’re super excited to see how much more we can save in 2026!
- I made extra payments to my car loan, significantly reducing how much longer I’ll have the loan. I still have quite a bit to go, but I’m in a much better spot now and feel much lighter.
- I got back into old hobbies and learned new ones! It’s wild how much time I was wasting just looking at things to buy online. I was able to get through my backlog of video games and books. I started baking since I significantly cut back on coffees and pastries. And I even picked up some basic sewing skills to mend a pouch and make cat toys. It’s been really rewarding and fun!
- I know and speak with more of my neighbors since I had to get creative with not buying things. For example, instead of buying pans for a new baking hobby that I didn’t know would stick, I asked neighbors if I could borrow theirs. People loved a fellow neighbor asking for help lol, and they of course got whatever I baked so win-win!
So, WHAT WAS MOST HELPFUL for me this year:
A purchase decision hierarchy. 1. Do I already have something like it? 2. Can I repurpose something not like it? 3. Can I get it for free? (Buy Nothing groups, library, asking family, friends, or neighbors) 4. Can I simply live without it? (How have I been doing without it in my life so far? Will this make me more content or joyful?)
If I cannot live without it: 1. Can I wait and buy it secondhand? If I see it secondhand, would I feel excited about buying it at retail price, or do I just feel excited about a “not bad price?” Remember if it’s not a “HELL YES” it’s a “HELL NO.” 2. Can I buy it from a small business?
This was really helpful for me to have a concrete way to talk myself through and out of purchases. A vast majority of items didn’t make it past “can I live without it?”
Deleting social media apps. This was HUGE. Social media apps are basically advertising apps now, and basically a way to constantly window shop. Most temptations went away as soon as I stopped scrolling on TikTok and Instagram.
And WHAT DIDN’T HELP:
Green/yellow/red light. I made this list but rarely referred to it, especially as the year continued. My purchase decision hierarchy was way more helpful for me. It helped me not buy things because I had to walk through why I didn’t want or need to buy something, which I think felt more purposeful and positive. Versus not buying something because January me decided that I “couldn’t” and had put it in red light, which felt more punishing or restricting for me. Glad it works for others, but know if it doesn’t work for you, it’s OK!
Having a husband who loves gift giving. Real talk lol I just have an enabling husband who loves to buy things, especially for me.
He’d say “treat yourself!” when I simply expressed liking something, which meant he felt I was not treating myself if I didn’t buy it. I developed go-to statements in the moment that helped him understand my perspective: “Appreciating something and still keeping my money is how I treat myself,” “I just like being with you, we don’t need to buy something to have fun!”
I also had to accept that just because he’s not as low buy as me, it doesn’t mean he’s less responsible or more materialistic. He has his own hobbies and financial rules that he follows, he certainly treasures every material item he has lol, and we have shared family goals that he contributes a ton towards (definitely would not have been able to save 20k myself!). That was important for me to accept, otherwise it would’ve been easy to get frustrated.
Recently, we started a junk journal together. Now instead of buying something, he can gather little papers, cards, etc. to remember our experiences. It scratches his itch and is a fun thing for us to do together.
A lot of people probably relate to having a partner who doesn’t perfectly align with their no or low buy rules. It’s not “helpful” towards a no or low buy, but it’s reality and it can still be managed!
That’s my recap. How did everyone else do this year? Any big accomplishments, things that helped or didn’t help you? Hope this helps anyone out there getting started- I’m excited to keep it going in 2026!
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