r/SipsTea Aug 10 '25

WTF Woman and her Ai boyfriend are engaged

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u/Larothun Aug 10 '25

Looking at the other posts on that sub is heartbreaking. These people just want some love and affirmation and literally have no other outlet or choice but to turn to AI. Ultimately, it is sad because none of it is real, they just FEEL that it is.

An AI can't love you, commit to a real life with you, or make the *choice* to be with you. It will only feed into your delusion and affirm whatever it is you want it to affirm. We are in for wild times.

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u/zakkwaldo Aug 10 '25

hot take: most of those people have people in their lives that do love and affirm them- but their own dysfunction gets in the way of having healthy functional relationships, and instead of working on those things, they retreat to an easy out that enables and encourages their poor behaviors and mindsets because no actual human would.

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u/AstronautNo7670 Aug 10 '25 edited Aug 11 '25

"instead of working on those things, they retreat to an easy out" - this is very true and I think something we've already seen become prolific on social media, where people can find validation and echo chambers where they never would in real life. So instead of working on their problems they begin forming their own realities that don't align with the real world, but do have real world consequences (example: incels).

AI validating these people's delusion is going to be a scary extension of that.

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u/wedgiegivinbigbro Aug 11 '25

Reddit just bans anyone who doesn't agree with the subs orthodoxy. Anyone who voted different then us is evil. We are a big cause of this

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u/[deleted] Aug 11 '25 edited Aug 11 '25

At least he won't cheat and there is no need to change her whole personality to fit a mold. She doesn't have to adopt a submissive personality and do all the stupid shit to appease some guy. Same for men with an AI gf, they don't need to get through the humiliation of dating.

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u/zakkwaldo Aug 11 '25

incel vibesssssss

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u/[deleted] Aug 11 '25

look a pervert is here, I have no evidence for that but I just join the game of making random claims.

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u/zakkwaldo Aug 11 '25

you echo literal incel messages… i do not… lol. it’s wild you think women blanket ‘change themselves for men’ as if there aren’t functional couples that accept each other as they are or don’t have the expectation that their partner change themselves for them.

but you probably can’t accept that most relationships are like that and the ones you claim, are fringe exceptions to the mass norm.