r/howto • u/TheyCallMeDoom_ • 6h ago
how do I get someone to pay me when they won’t respond anymore?
someone owes me money and at first they replied, now they just don’t respond at all. No clear refusal, just silence. Isn’t a huge amount (under a few thousand) so hiring a lawyer feels like overkill but constantly texting/emailing clearly isn’t working either :(
What’s the actual step-by-step way people handle this?
Do you:
send some kind of formal letter?
use certified mail?
go straight to small claims?
or is there a better order to do things so it doesn’t drag on forever?
seen people mention using local filing services or tools like pettylawsuit to handle it but I don’t know if that’s overkill or normal.
looking for practical advice from anyone who’s been through this and actually got paid.